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5Star
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 Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 6:27 pm Post subject: First pull - now I need to secure a date! |
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I've got some questions here but first is a brief field report.
I succesfully pulled a girl on Friday night for the first time since getting into PUA. The girl (HB7) seemed really into me and if I'm honest, I didn't really have to put in a lot of effort to pull her. The main thing is though that I followed the 3 second rule and opened which I've never done before. Now I'm after a date but ain't sure how to play things.
I ran some routines on her which worked well and then bounced to another club quite late on. She was with her best friend who got refused entry but the HB still came in with me. Sat with her talking in the club for about an hour even though it was fucking LOUD. Was struggling a bit at this point as I'm still new and all the routines and convo threads I'd learnt went out of my head. So I just fluffed for ages which was ok as we actually had a lot in common. I knew full well she wanted me to kiss her as she had been IOIing me like crazy but I couldn't escalate at all for some reason. In the end, I resorted to the lame old "can I get a goodnight kiss?" which I did and it lasted well over an hour! Also got pretty heated. I could have closed her much sooner but just couldn't phase shift. Outside afterwards, I was getting off with her again and then put her in a taxi and got her number. Overall, she seemed well into me but I've been here before and got nowhere afterwards, mainly coz things went too far too soon. This time I want to try and at least secure a date.
Now I haven't called her yet. My plan was to text her tonight. Thing is, I'm a bit worried bout buyers remorse. Whats the best way to approach a girl for a date after a serious make out session on a weekend? If I do manage to get her on a date, I'm concerned about how it'll go as it'll be a big come down if you like from the weekend and is gonna seem awkward. Not to mention the fact my dating experience is shall we say, limited and I admit to being nervous. Before anyone tells me, I know my inner game needs a lot of work.
Basically, I want to see this girl again if only for the practice. I need some ideas on how best to approach her for a date and how to handle things if I get a date. Basic noob AFC stuff. |
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sweetw1982
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| Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 10:50 pm Post subject: |
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| Best thing I can say is dont let things get too heated while in the comfort building stage. Problem is, she will more times than not just think your calling to finish what you started, which means she will think your calling for sex. What I would do is after making out, tell her "thats all you get right now" and "lets rejoin our friends" that way, you are stopping. If she really wants it, she will jump at the opporitunity there. If its not possibly there, you can build a time bridge until you can get to the s phase location. |
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