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Sgt.Slice
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 Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 6:57 pm Post subject: First night sarging. Got any tips? |
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So next week I'm planning on going sarging for the first time... I was actually planning on doing it this weekend but I got sick and it wouldn't be very good to be coughing in their faces the whole time.
Does anyone have any tips for the first night? I've kind of adopted the mentality that what ever happens doesn't matter because I'm using this time as practice for when I go to college next year. Also this may be my first night sarging, but its not the first time I've gamed a girl. I did it once to a 6/6.5 a few weeks ago just to see what happened and it worked great... My friends were there however so I didn't escalate kino or get into A3 or anything like because I really wasn't all that into this girl even though she was fun to talk to.
But if anyone has any tips or stories from their first night sarging I'd love to hear them. Esp getting through that first approach... and getting past the opener..
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rant
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I like to tell first timers what Mystery told Style to do:
"If I weren't gay, you'd so be mine."
Then follow through with all you've learned.
Just by using this opener, you've eliminated any shred of AA that you could ever have. And if you ever get AA, just think back to the time when you said it. AA- gone. |
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Gun
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| Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 8:53 pm Post subject: |
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| have a list of 3-5 openers , 3-5 routines and 3 stories and a k-closing routine if u like. Just chill and follow the 3-second-rule. If u manage to get past the approach anxienty its a good starting point. |
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Sgt.Slice
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 7:08 pm Post subject: |
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| rant wrote: | I like to tell first timers what Mystery told Style to do:
"If I weren't gay, you'd so be mine."
Then follow through with all you've learned.
Just by using this opener, you've eliminated any shred of AA that you could ever have. And if you ever get AA, just think back to the time when you said it. AA- gone. |
Is that used as an opener or just a casual said False Disqualifier? Is the point for them to actually believe you're gay? because where I'm from guys say stuff like this all the time and joke about it casually, I don't think any girl would actually believe I'm serious. |
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Flow84
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| to follow up on Mystery's advice to style "the Gay opener" the point is that if you work a set well the first thing you say to them won't matter a jot it was just a way to get into the set, and thats perfect if its not said seriously where your from but if guys say it all the time maybe change it a bit to make it fresh |
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Sgt.Slice
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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| Flow84 wrote: | | to follow up on Mystery's advice to style "the Gay opener" the point is that if you work a set well the first thing you say to them won't matter a jot it was just a way to get into the set, and thats perfect if its not said seriously where your from but if guys say it all the time maybe change it a bit to make it fresh |
Well to be honest... I go to an All-Boys High School(Dumb Mistake)...its my senior year and the "Gay Stuff" we mostly joke about with each other, we know people think we're gay because we go to an All-Boys School so we just joke about it 24/7. I don't really know what the guys around here say to chicks... because I don't meet that many girls... but I'll give it a try.
Because Now that I think about it the ""If I weren't gay, you'd so be mine." line I think I can work with. It actually sounds like something I would say. It should help me overcome my AA, if I have alot...
I'm still unsure how much anxiety I will get... there's only one way to find out though, which is to get out their and try it. Hopefully I'll do alright. I plan on keeping it low pressure. Should I just go out an open a few sets to start? or should I go out and right away try to run full sets...with DHV routines, comfort building, kino and all that?
BTW-thanks for the advice guys I appreciate it. |
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