The opener is very limited so use it wisely,
The opener goes like
Me:Hi! I could use some pointers/tips from you!
HB:Umm okay on what? (And now she is thinking the normal crap that u are a loser etc etc)
Me:I am going to move to this town soon and I have now idea wich neigbourhoods are any good (you can also ask her if she lives close to here, that will REALLY make her but up her bitch shield and be even more suprised when you DO NOT TRY AND PICK HER UP!!!)
HB:Oooh! (hopefully she is from that town) well bla bla this and that etc etc
ME:(cut her off) just tell me 2 places where no self respecting man would ever buy/rent an appartment!
HB:bla bla bla
ME:So tell me where you live! (some of you NLP guys can probably do this frase in a more effectiv way)
HB:(there are a few answers she can give you but if u cut her off in any sentence before this she will hopefully answer truthfully and if she doesnt and calls you a creep all you hafto say is something like "oh my god you think I am flirting with YOU?" and then a sinister smile) "I live bla bla bla"
ME:(if that is a place she mentioned as a good place to live earlier you can later on bust on her for trying to make you live close to her
) so then I will look for appartments in bla bla bla, Hey wanna see a cool trick? (or a story/esp/NLP or whatever!)
I used this opener alot and it never failed (as an opener anyway) I must have opened atleast 8 sets with this, and if u make a good "time excuse" (I cant stay long etc etc) and you smoothly work into youre normal routine this is a killer opener, of course if u use this opener the possibility of taking her home to you (if u are in youre home town) is kinda tricky
A question thou, does anyone have a good comeback when the esp test fail! happend to me twice and I was trying to work in that she had an independent mind bla bla usuall BS but it didnt have an impact.. any ideas??