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PostPosted: Mon Jul 03, 2017 5:22 pm 
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A few weeks ago, I had a date with a girl I met on Tinder.

On Tinder, we had great conversations and she always replied within 4 hours. After two weeks, I asked her out for a drink.

During the drink, we had a great time. I was talking alot, make her laugh, and we sat for 4 hours!! At the end we made out and she said that she would like to see me again soon.

till now the following data:
friday; drinks and made out
saturday; i send her text that i had fun and want to meet her soon
sunday: she replied with that she liked it too and definitely want to meet me
monday: i suggested a new date.

she didn't respond.

I texted her with: 'I know I am bad, but you are worse! Lets meet this week
SHe respond the same day with: Sorry I am too busy with work and new apt.
that is her latest respons till now and it has been 1,5 week.

What went wrong? Did i show too much interest?


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 Post subject: Re: What went wrong??
PostPosted: Mon Jul 03, 2017 5:39 pm 
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anthony_pham123 wrote:
we sat for 4 hours!! At the end we made out
I am a firm believer in this being a bad date. This is a linear date and that is not seductive. A four hour date that began on tinder. She liked you and you yapped her ear off instead of capitalizing on the fact that she liked you already. If you meet a girl online, your first priority when you meet her is to create sexual tension. At the four hour point, she should be telling you her Uber arrived and she'll find her panties the next time she comes over.


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 Post subject: Re: What went wrong??
PostPosted: Mon Jul 03, 2017 5:57 pm 
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anthony_pham123 wrote:

What went wrong? Did i show too much interest?


You stopped escalating.

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 Post subject: Re: What went wrong??
PostPosted: Mon Jul 03, 2017 6:21 pm 
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anthony_pham123 wrote:
we sat for 4 hours!!


Terrible!


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saturday; i send her text that i had fun and want to meet her soon



This is how a feminine woman is supposed to respond after a date, if you did the date well.



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What went wrong? Did i show too much interest?



Boring first date.

I recently went on a date. A half hour in, I took the girl outside and went for the kiss. She declined, but said sexual things into my ear. Now she's been blowing up my phone every few days to hook up. I'm kind of "meh" about it now so I keep ignoring her texts.

Learn to recognize the peaks of the date. Four hours is way, way too long. It makes you look like a dickless robot whose voice box won't turn off.

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 Post subject: Re: What went wrong??
PostPosted: Mon Jul 03, 2017 8:47 pm 
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thanks!!!


Now i realize what i did wrong. Lesson learned :)


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