Hey guys, another field report for you. It's more for my own benefit just to see it all written down than anything else. But if it helps someone else, then that's awesome.
Here goes:
So I took this girl out for a second time, the one from my minigolf field report. As I stated before shes a gorgeous italian girl, could be a 10 if she had more in the chest region. But that's not a huge deal (no pun intended haha.) Anywho, I dropped by her house and took her over to the skating rink. We had mostly fluff talk in the car, it seemed a little more distant that the first time we went out. I think this is partially due to the phone problems we had, and two weeks without seeing eachother. Either way the ride over was still pretty comfortable with lively talk and blah blah. Anyways, we grab some fast food real quick and head over to the rink after we eat.
I help her get the right skates and everything and we have a pretty good time on the ice. I held her hand for awhile, was C/F, and kept the conversation lively and elicited some more values. I got her thinking about positive things with a few questions. For example:
Me: The ice rink is one of my places, you know what I mean? It's one of those places you can go and you don't really think about your problems, you just have fun. It's also one of those places that helps me think and focus my thoughts. How about you, where are some of your places like this?
Her: blah blah blah. It made her smile and I'm sure it got her thinking in a positive direction. (not that she wasn't before. I'm not a very negative person
.)
In any case, I wanted to go for the kiss on the ice, but I felt it would have been awkward or rejected because of all the people around. It was pretty crowded that day. I know, I pussed out. I dropped the ball.
After we finished, we were taking off our skates. She told me her fingers were too cold to undo the knots and wanted me to help. I told her I don't come for free, and she would have to give me a backrub if I did this for her. She said she would and told me it would be extra long if I helped her loosen the laces too. Ha! I told her I would hold her to it, and cash in the favor another time. I was hoping this would help solidify another meeting within the next few days.
We're walking back to the parking lot and she's complaining that her pants are too loose and are coming down a little. I told her "I only asked for a backrub, I barely know you and you're already taking your clothes off in front of me?" She replied with a little laugh and said she wouldn't be taking her clothes off.
I thought, Damnit! But guys, we all know you can't take a woman's word at face value!
Anyways, I take her back home, more interesting convo in the car on the way home...mostly just fluff talk. So I walk her up to the door, she gives me a big hug and says it was tons of fun. I wanted to kiss her, but AGAIN I fucking PUSSED OUT, and didn't. It didn't feel right, I didn't go for it. I should have just used the 3 second rule...I wasn't sure what to do though, because as soon as we got to the door she immediately went for the hug. There wasn't any time to just go for it. In anycase, when she hugged me I told her to kiss me on the cheek. She seemed taken aback at first (I seriously doubt anyone has asked her to do this before), but she did it and giggled afterward. She seems like a naive girl overall, really kind of shy. I'll break her out of that though, and hopefully next time have something much more interesting to report! Anyways, gotta go finish up a project, so I'll see you guys later.
As always, I encourage criticism(constructive) and critiques. So feel free!
Always,
~Muse