FIELD REPORT/LIFE UPDATE/ LAY REPORT
Life's good, just have to keep up the organization and shit. I haven't played the piano in awhile but I have been working on other things. I have been getting my dental and doctor appointments out of the way so i don't have to worry about that shit until 6 months later again. I have been good with my money, I went to NYC 2 weekends ago and saw my family which really motivated me to get my shit together. One of my personal incentives is to be a role model for my little brothers and my family. I want to show them that anything is possible. I want them to talk about me in a positive light to everyone they meet.
Anywho, I did some gaming in NYC with my friends. It's definitely a fun time with people you care about. I danced the night away, approached a few girls and took down some numbers but I was only in town for 4 days. It was definitely fun and an interesting experience.
I have been losing weight pretty well. I am at 183 pounds. My goal weight for 2016 is 180 pounds. If I am 179 pounds by December 31st, then I have beat such a small goal. I have lost 25 pounds since January 1st so it's been a hell of a ride. I am looking great and feel better about myself. Girls are definitely noticing my sexuality oozing out of my body. Last Saturday I went out in new gear I got from NYC. I looked fucking hot. When I got to the bar, I looked at everyone with such confidence that some girls stopped talking to get a look at me. I smiled and saw people I knew. It was going to be a good night. Fashion check, body weight check, smile check, social proof check.
The first set was my last set lol. My buddy ran into a girl he had sex with a couple times and she had friends. This girl was into him the moment she set her eyes on my roommate. Her body language was a dead giveaway. Before she could start gaming my roommate I asked her to not be rude and introduce me to her friends. She introduced me to a cute little shorty. I went into game mode immediately. I started fucking with her head telling her I was Japanese. She kinda didn't know what to believe. I have face that can be interpreted as mixed so she didnt' want to offend me and I took this as a perfect time to play up the ante. I definitely kinoed in the first few minutes.
There were two other girls in the group but I didn't talk to them. I had my target and they weren't really interesting to me. I started to run the us vs them routine between her and my roommate and his girl. It was fun trying to convert her to my team. She didn't know how to take me. She couldn't tell if I was a cocky asshole or just a dude that liked to play around. She asked my roommate if i was a dick. my roomie said he's a cool dude and he can get out of hand sometimes
Then out of nowhere a girl I knew touches my face and says hey Mr. A. I quickly said hi and asked who was she here with etc. Made it polite but told her that I would talk to her later. She gets really attention seeking when I am talking to another girl. I never fucked her but she always tries to be the hottest girl at the bar and tries to act like it. This time I told her that I won't be joining her. Either way, the target notices this and is curious even more.
My roommate and his girl go to the bar to take shots. I am left with my girl. I ask her to come to the bar the opposite side and I tell her that I will use my "masculine presence" to cut through the crowd. I did just that lol. I told people "Excuse me" while smiling and touching them to part the sea. It was hilarious. Once I got to the bar I just raised my eyebrow cockily to another two set at the bar. They were taken aback at my confidence but they were curious. This is all just a big romantic comedy at this point.
My target gave me money for her beer and I pocketed and paid by card. I told the bartender that I take care of her
. I was reinforcing the us vs the world mentality once again. My target Kate was just laughing at this point.
We walked back to our original location and this time she grabbed me by the hand. This was very good sign.
I kept up the attraction material and the banter. I literally did not do much comfort. This was a pure physical and brief rapport pickup. My roommate came back and he had to go to the bathroom and left me with the two girls. I handled it pretty well. I am use to picking two sets since I just usually pit them against one another for fun. There was a group of 4 chicks behind me that were watching me work. They were definitely trying to get in on some of the action. Why? Because one of them kept grabbing my ass to get my attention
on the third ass grab I caught her walking back to her group. I just looked at them like "sorry toots, I'm kinda busy here with these two"
This was GREAT! My two sets saw her grab my ass 4 times and when I looked back in like a "i know you want me but maybe another time" kind of look, it solidified who I was staying with tonight. My target got even more chummy chummy with me. When my roommate came back, his girl said we should go to our place to chill. His girl talked to my target and after a few minutes of girl talk, we all went back to my crib. Mind you I haven't kissed closed my chick, on the way to the car I twirled her around and gave her a brief kiss and told her she will get more when we get to the house. She had the look of "shit, he as self control".
At my apartment she had a brief LMR moment as i took her to my room and my roomie and his girl said nighhht. I turned off the light put on some music and started lightly grinding on her and kissing her neck while she started talking about nothing. It was working. She eventually started getting horny again and I backed up towards my bed and we got on it. She stopped me midway during taking off clothes and told me she didn't want to have sex because last time the condom broke and she usually wants to be dating seriously.
Personally, I took it as another LMR resistance where she wanted to see if I was going to get needy or pouty. I didn't. I just said I understand and that we are both adults. She then started to say "no no it's not like that, we can do other things". I just smiled and said sure and proceeded to go on. I took off her clothes eventually. She was giving me resistance but I have been here so many times that I assumed to take a step back before she could use her hand to push my hand away. It was like i was in the zone. Eventually we were naked. She got on top and i made sure to get more sexy and hot. I penetrated her once without a condom. She didn't like that lol. She stopped me and was like "at least you could have said if you could put on a condom"
I apologized sincerely and put her on the bed. I kissed her and went down on her. I put on a condom while I was eating her out. She didn't notice me rummaging through my pants pocket lol. I went back up after 10 minutes of her moaning and tried to insert. She stopped me again. I told her that I understand that she doesn't want to have a kid and that I certainly don't either. That's my freedom there. She understood I was serious about being safe and I ended up getting the lay.
The next day, I learned that I was the second guy she ever slept with. I guess the quote is true that a woman will sleep with a guy if he turns out to be the right man at the right time...if that's how it goes...