Field Report: Lay Report:
My roommate was in grieving so i decided to ask my cute girlfriends out to cheer him up. Being in feminine energy always brings the mood up for any man. We went to a local bar where people were celebrating St. Patricks day. I came in and there they were my 3 beautiful girls. We are just friends, I did sleep with a couple of them but we have been through alot so we keep in touch
So skimming through the friend shit we went to the back of the bar where my good friends proceeded to bust my balls. I am used to her doing this because i dish it right back. Anyway, her guy friend came by and this is the guy that she has been hooking up with. That was my cue to leave because I knew she was going to dip out early. I exchanged goodbyes, hugged and grabbed the ass of one girl who has a donk and went on my merry way.
My roommate has a girlfriend now but he still flirts and helps me out. We went to another bar where we gamed a few girls. Nothing solid since the girl that opened us was drunk and not within our standards. She was trying to get a drink but we told her that we were in line and that she has to wait
I was just using her for practice and her friends come along and act weird
. My wing saw the akwardness and said lets go somewhere else. I agreed and we said our goodbyes. Only one of them was in my standards. Not worth having my wing go through entertaining two of them.
I texted one of my old flings and it was a drunk text. I just asked her if she was out and about. She then told me that she was at one of the bars. I told her that we were heading there actually. She was trying to be all like "oh, we might leave soon, etc" and I called her and told her to stay put because I was already walking in.
Kate..oh Kate...I saw that she gained a couple pounds. Nothing devastating but she wasn't firm like I remember her. It has been about 2 month since I talked to her...at first I opened her nonverbally with my body. I just bumped into her and played it off like in the movies lol. She was like hiii and my roommate was there. I let them talk and I talked to her cute friend. I was straight up with her and she was straight up with me.
She said I tried too hard. I let that sink in. I made a post the other day about storytelling and it reminded me that if I talk less, the better. I told her thank you for the feedback and I appreciate it. She was very sweet and told me that she liked me but I need to cut it down a bit.
I then turned to my fling. I gamed her and told her to follow me to the front for a drink. My wing was actually signaling me to wrap it up. He was right, I already slept with her and all I needed to do was do some LMR. Now, this sounds sociopathic but I knew what was going to occur. I told her to go back to my place to which she agreed to "hang out". I brought her into my room to where I set up a show I have been watching lately. It's a great show! Rick and Morty lol.
As I laid on the bed she wasn't following the lead. I then grabbed her and placed her next to me. I tried a kiss for giggles and she was like "nope hanging out" I said ok. I let the tv do some work for 20 minutes and then tried again. We started talking and she was telling me how she didn't want to be a bang piece. I sought some closure as to why she abruptly ended the fling. I assured her that I won't make the mistake of making her feel that way. After that it was smooth sailing. Eventually I will have to let her know that I am making moves to go and move to NYC in a year. I won't be hurting her like that.