Wednesday 24th SeptemberBuzz...Buzz...
The whatsapp was blowing up. Buzz... Buzz...
The pua clique whatsapp group was getting froffy
. Times, venues, pua's opting in. I didn't play my hand yet. I have been insanely
busy and enjoying it. Introducing a sickening work ethic
into my days. Success is where preparation meets opportunity
and when mine comes I'll be prepared. I decided that I had to go out though. To just be around game. I comitted myself to this shit and must be obedient
if I want to develop my skill.
“The separation of talent and skill is one of the greatest misunderstood concepts for people who are trying to excel, who have dreams, who want to do things. Talent you have naturally. Skill is only developed by hours and hours and hours of beating on your craft." - Will Smith”
So I decided to hit the pua's up. We met in central. I planned on not drinking but decided to get one. Guiness. Gotta love it. I then got another. Then decided to get some giant ass cocktail. You know, the one's in the oversized glasses. Something more akin to what a metrosexual giant would drink out of
. We all just chill and then decide it is time for a bit of game. The wing who must not be named
ambled out with the giant ass glass. Like fuck I wanted to be seen holding it. Twas tasty though. He plonked the glass on a table with a 2 set. We get's to talking. It's funny, game is like riding a bike. You literally never forget. We were with these girls a while, just talking, not much else. I went for the belated number close, that shit was deflected
. So we decided to head to another bar.
N.B - I saw a girl in the bar right at the beginning of the night, when I was on my own waiting for the other pua man dem. I said I would approach her later. After I opened a couple of sets I felt like I was warmed up. But I couldn't find her.
The next bar was pretty dead. As was the one after that. We did however go to one bar that was sooooo sick
. Literally like walking into something out of Lord of the Rings
. A full on hobbit abode. Styled as an old tavern, winding passages and had a giant tree in the middle of all of it! Might I add this was underground as well. Nuts
, we have to hit that shit at the weekend. For sure.
After a bit more bar hopping we are thinking about calling it a night. It was just dead everywhere. Suddenly Z bar was suggested. I jumped on that shit. We head to Z bar and guess what...it be's popping!
I went downstairs and saw loads of people with name tags, I assumed there was speed dating or something going on. It was as busy as I'd find on a weekend. I remember at work a couple of weeks ago I had showed a guy I worked with a website madbid. As soon as he went on there in his Nothern accent, he turned, giddy and shit and was like 'Snow, I'm gonna do me nut here'
. lol. This is all I kept repeating in my head when I was in Z bar. Wall to wall. God damn.
I feel so at home at Z bar as well. It's strange. Perhaps it's because I go there so much. I never need any time to acclimate myself. I think this helps.
As I walked to the bar, through the crowded dance floor. Dressed in black, leather jacket zipped up, looking pimp some girl points at me. I stop. She says 'you are hot'. We have a brief exchange and I walk off. She pretty much, tapped my forearm, tied a belt around my arm, took a long ass syringe and pumped me full of state with her comment! lol. At the bar I opened a 2 set straight of the bat. One was a strong HB8. She had anime instantly. However her English wasn't great. She was Spanish. Her body was insane. The lack of English turned me off though, I'm a Stephen Fry wit machine
. I can't be repeating myself like 10 times. I bounced off from that.
I may also add, skipping back
about 20 mins earlier in the night. I saw one blonde bombshell. Jesus wept, she was nice. I knew I wanted that. She disappeared upstairs. hhmmmm. Ok, now skipping forward
20 mins, I decide to go upstairs for a smoke. The upmarket club opposite was opening and the girls going there looked unreal. I open 3 set. They were weekenders from an eastern European country. I forget which one. I entertain them and then depart. At best there was two, strong HB6's. Nothing to get me excited. I go downstairs and walk across the danclefloor...jacket still zipped up to the maximum! I see a girl look at me. We lock eyes briefly. Oh my diddy dayz. That is more than enough for an approach me thinks. Now I am not sure if this is the girl that called me 'hot' earlier, I honestly can't remember. Even though a little amount of time had passed. I don't know. It could of been. I didn't reference that in the open or in the interaction.
I tap her. I said something, I can't remember what. I honestly just make this shit up spur of the moment. We get talking, she's German. Her English may I add was impeccable
. I can work with that. I said I can guess where she's from. After reading Tr@veller's blog I found out that there is a state in Germany, Bavaria. It's like the only place I know. lol. I said she was from there. And she was. I mentioned how that means we are destined to be bff's. And how she will show me all the sites. I made her pinky promise. I think it may be important to point out I have been interweaving a lot of lovey dovey shit into my game. Like going over the top. I ask them when am I going to meet the parents, if they want a summer wedding, how we will have 11 children etc. This seems to go down quite well. I think it may have something to do with the role play. The way you build a life together. Its funny because you can pull things out on the life you have just constructed. Like if you ask her where would she like to go on holiday. You could add, I know it will be somewhere hot because we are having a summer wedding you love the summer or some bullshit like that. I honestly can't explain it. I just know this seems to go down well.
It was nice to also see I am still the predator
like always. I gently held her hand, she held back. So I put my hand on her hip, she allowed this. I moved her hand to mine. I start with low kino and escalate it. Calibrate
. Guys don't be afraid to escalate. Always act like it is on till you get a strong sign of discouragment. The opposite of an IOI...IOD (indicator of disinterest)...I'm not sure, I'm forgetting pua terminology. Which I don't see as a bad thing. The game/rsd etc. they are great to give you an idea. But you have to go out there and carve out your perception of reality. These guys can merely show you the top of the mountain. You have to put in the hours, the sweat and the tears to reach the top. After about 3-4 mins I look to k close. I got one on the lips (no tongue), but I am persistent as fu
ck. Drop the kino a bit, rapport build and go again. I did this like 4/5 times, getting closer each time. Then I cut the bull. I got in close. And just stared at her.
This intense stare comes from a wing of mine and of course VP. Guys 'the stare'
has untold power. I don't want to go into what it has as it may sound a bit nutty. But, briefly, I think, if you envisage something and you believe it can happen with 100% certainty the universe will conspire to make it so. I have been watching a bit of motivational stuff and this video by Will Smith where he talks about it. Surprising he would be into/know of it. But I think it's true. Anyways I look her dead in the eyes, channelling my sexual energy
. Then with no words I kiss her. This worked well. And my better than my recent attempts. It's much bolder though and if it doesn't come off, it may set you back. So I would recommend it's best still to kino escalate and make sure you have a good chance of the kiss. It's like the first k close I've had in ages without using the Vitaly 3 questions. haha!
I remember looking at the dancefloor and seeing my wing with the blonde bombshell. Nice for him. If you don't take your chances, its true, that destiny waits for no man. One important mentality I am starting to have with girls is a view I heard, coined by Rsd Todd. 'She is fucking someone, why can't it be you'. This is so true, some guy probably less deserved than you is sticking it between her legs, why not you?
So I made out with the German girl (HB8) incessantly. Her friend interupted once or twice. I said a few words, brief convo and after about a minute she was giving my German girl the thumbs up. Wishing she could have some of my D. Sadly for her, when it comes to AB's this zipper stays up. Might aswell be wearing a chastity belt when those monstrosities come into play. The German girls friends left and I kept making out with her. But it was so early in the night, I wanted to game more. I got bored. She took my number as mine was out of battery. Even though she had the anime eyes, I knew the chances getting a call off her would be slim to none, even though she was enamored with me. Such is game.
- Both my biggest strength and my biggest weakness is that I go after something dog-idly with blinkers on not wavering. Work has been all consuming but I still have to make time to game.
- A couple of missed opportunities tonight made me think I should be bolder and not wait, no matter what. Just go for it.