HB 8.0 NerdyChick
I meet her at a concert. I bumped into her standing by herself. I open her by asking for a drink. Rarely do I ever pay for drinks, and this situation was no different. After this I start chatting her up, and find out she went to the same school as me. We dance, and I initiate kino. I get some resistance playing with her boobs, but as she grinds her ass into me my hands start to touch her vagina over her pants. I should have slipped my hands under her pants while others were watching. In any event, I start to kiss her on the neck. We get pretty hot and bothered. We exchange numbers I eject. Usually, I kiss close or try to transition back to my place. However, this girl was abrasive yet passionate like it was tough to call. She wants a FWB, and thus, I remain in state but she is really weird. My success with black women is dismal to be honest. Im better suited for white woman and this case was no different. For whatever reason, in my experience black women expect like hundreds of dollars spent to fuck them. In my experience, white women will even pay for dates, and don't mind getting fucked at the end of the night too. This goes for even professional white women like Phds, JDs, MDs. However, a hood rat black chick that looks like an eight with no degree working at some low level job will expect you to buy drinks all night and this isnt necessarily an invitation to spend the night. Hence, why I reject a lot of black women they simply dont understand how to date.
Since this date I have received semi-nude pictures from the girl. However, I feel like there is a little bit of a wall between us. I'm hoping to break it, but don't want to be too pushy. I could cut her loose, but there was something distinctive about her look. Moreover, I want to bend her over doggystyle one day, and make her beg for my cock.
I have a new rule. Don't date girls that like concerts they are usually more psychotic. Moreover, how can you demonstrate value when you're obviously not the center of attention.
HB 8.5 Crossfit
Met this girl at the gym. In most cases, I dont close women from the gym. However, in this case she basically followed me around the gym. Perhaps, I had a decent gym routine. I don't know what it was, however, I did number close her. I approached her by talking about lifting, and demonstrated value by having some pretty impressive lifts. She is not shy about her body, because after receiving her number I texted her asking for a sexy picture. This of course was for my caller id. She was topless with her back towards me to show off her lats. In this case, not being a shy guy at all I ask her to turn around. She sends me a nude picture, and I know right away its on like donkey kong.
I invite her out to a happy hour. I figure it is relatively low commitment. I go through my standard routine. She agrees to transition to my place to watch a movie. We hang out on my bed for awhile, and we get very comfortable cuddling over drinks. I escalate kino, and very quickly we are concentrating on each other. In fact, I get her naked and the rest is history. I bang her several times over the course of the next hour or two. Evidently, she is now my wife material girlfriend.
This sarge broke my traditional rule of no engagement of any women wherever I have daily routines. I sarge outside of my neighborhood and outside of places I normally visit. Dont shit where you eat the saying goes.
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This close resulted in a lay nothing too special. Met a girl at bookstore. I commented on the ongoing reality. We chatted briefly and number closed her.
Girl : Hello there
I see you study at XXXXX. I study at XXXXXX currently. Would love to chat sometime!
Me : Hey what do you study.
Girl : I currently study religion and philosophy. But I am applying to masters programs in healthcare.
Me : Oh cool. What year are you?
Girl : Senior
Me : Oh ok. What do you like to do for fun?
Girl : How about you what year law school?
Me : XXXX
Girl: For fun I love to hang out with friends. Go out to the bars and restaurants. How about you?
Me : The same here though I like sporting events and live concerts too.
Me : What is your ideal guy like?
Girl: My ideal guys haha you know what? I really dont have too many expectations. Just a kind guy who is ambitious or passionate about his work and would like to do life together. Thats general but Im pretty laid back.
Me : I like someone adventurous, fun, passionate in life and in the bedroom, and not afraid to let her hair down around me.
Girl : Well thats fair haha
Me : Sure
Girl : Are you looking for casusal or something more?
Me : Do you consider yourself a prude or more of a free spirit?
Me : Im really looking for someone that is sexually compatible right now. I dont like being straightforward but I dont want to waste your time.
Girl : I am not a prude by any means. Im like a free bird but I cant deny the side of me that wants to be structured. So I definitely fake how put together I am lol
Me : Im in school so want something stable it is cool
Me. You fake how put together you are?
Me : So cool youre a free bird. I guess we can hang out only because Im a free bird too and like it that way.
Me : Want to come over sometime and split a bottle of wine or go out to dinner sometime?
Girl : Haha I do fake it
Girl : But I am totally genuine. I hate to say it I am just an eloquent speaker and people person so it goes a longgg way.
Girl : But inside Im this crazy passionate person who wants it all and trying to reconcile my dreams and why
Me : I understand
Girl : Do I have to get naked the first time we meet. Lol.
Me : I think that would be cool. Lol.
Girl : Ahh but then I would be easy. Guys dont date the easy girl haha.
Me: Not necessarily
Girl : They sleep with her but they dont date her haha
Me: I date women that are in tune with their own sexuality and dont worry about what the world thinks
Girl : Well I dont care what the world thinks
Me : My longest relationship was with I girl I knew but slept with on the first date. We dated for four years.
Girl :But in my world like most guys dont date ya afterwards thats cool.
Me : I date women im compatible with.
Me: In my world we keep dating and building on our friendship as lovers
Girl : So whats your favorite wine
Me : Pinot Grigio. Chardonnay is good too.
Girl: White wine fan? I used to be but Ive converted to reds. I love merlot. Sauvignon isnt bad but thats a daytime drink lol.
Me : Lol cool. We could drink red wine sometime when are you free?
Girl : I have a few bottles I bought yesterday but I went out instead and never got to try them. I have a moscato and merlot that are waiting for me haha
Girl : This week is kind of hectic besides tonight
Me: Well bring them over to my apartment sometime and maybe we can watch a movie.
Me : Oh ok well you can come tonight if you want
Girl : Where do you live
Me : xxxxxx