Just got back home from a night out.
I head to Camden Town to meet a new wing that I contacted over some forum. I run 10 minutes late. We spot each other, say hi, and start heading down Camden Road to a bar.
We aren't sure where to go, decide to check out Koko, get out cash since we think it's only going to be 5 pounds, but turns out to be 20 pounds without an invite. We decide to leave and go to another place.
We spot a bar that's slowly picking up its pace. We go inside, I order a water, my wing, whom I shall call Kay, heads to the toilet. After a while he comes back and we start chatting. We talk about game and about our experiences. He's cool, in his thirties. I spot a two set next to us, and to warm up I go up, wave, introduce myself, and say, "Hey, I wanted to come say hi." She's a little dumbfounded. "It's the beginning of the night and I want to unstifle myself. I haven't been social yet, I'm not drinking now, so I'm just opening myself up to socializing." She nods and asks my name. I give it to her. She gives me hers. She's got red hair and I ask her about it. She answers something, then keeps turning to her friend. At one point she stops giving a fuck and turns away. So do I. Oh well.
There's a 4-set by a table, and I tell my wing to approach. He's nervous. I keep urging him to do it. In the end he does. I stand there for a few minutes, head to the toilet, come back and walk up to him by the table, chatting away with a girl. He introduces me, then keeps talking. I tap one of the girls on the shoulder and say hi. She's very shy. I ask whether she is english. She says yes but she clearly isn't. She turns back to her friends, who aren't talking. I stand there, plowing through, just standing. I decide this is awkward, but in a funny way. Kay finishes his conversation with the girl and says we should go. We go back to the bar. He gets a fucking coffee with 8 bloody sugars. The fuck? Anyway. I look over at the table, and sure enough the girls keep looking at us. Or at him. Or at me. Or at us. I tell Kay this, and tell him he can reapproach. The girl he talked to walks to the bar. He makes the move. Leaving me in the blank, not knowing what to do, haha. There's not much going on. I decide to go to the table of three girls now and sit down in the other girl's seat.
"My friend is talking to your friend" I say.
The blonde one responds.
"Yeah where is she?"
"Somewhere over there by the bar. They're just having fun."
I turn the conversation on them. It turns out she is Slovakian. Points in my league. She's a little too old for me, but still cool. She introduces herself, then I ask who her friends are. They introduce each other. Blondie is feisty, a little bitchy but in a funny way. I tell her to teach me some Slovakian. Ftoschke Dairepsha. Happy Birthday. She's astounded by my god-like language skills. We keep talking about languages, and how she doesn't like Italian.
At this point Kay and the girl come back. The girl wants her seat.
"I stole your seat."
"I know I want it back!" she says playfully.
I turn back to blondie, thinking the other girl is occupied with Kay.
At one point the two silent girls decide they will leave. We all say goodbye to them, so now it's just Kay, his girl, blondie and me at the table. We are in.
I notice Kay and his girl aren't talking much. Blondie tells me how much her friend loves Italian. I ask whether she knows any.
"Cazo!" we all laugh. Haha. Anyway. I tell her to keep listing words in Italian. I say she has a natural Italian in her. Now this girl is fucking pretty. A downright 9 or something, fucking cute and sexy as hell. I'm jealous.
However it turns out we have chemistry in that moment. I hold eye contact deeply as we talk across the table about languages. Blondie gets up to go somewhere. Kay leaves for a while. It's just us two now. We talk and talk and talk. She's a little tipsy. I've got a beer. We talk and talk and talk, just chatting shit. I then move to blondie's chair to get better positioning. Let the touching games begin. We start to slowly feel each other out over the conversation, getting to a point of real physical comfort.
And then we vibe like crazy. She begins to respond more slowly. I notice, and so do I. At times we're sitting there for a good 20 - 30 seconds not saying anything, not even looking at each other, but feeling the vibe. We play. We play who is more desperate? I can play this game. Sometimes I take ages to respond to her questions, and when I do respond it's with a smirk and it's half serious. She cracks up several times, and so do I. I become vulnerable and so does she. Damn fuck. At one point our hands touch, and I size her hand up against mine. We interlock. We talk closely into each other's ears, when we do talk that is. I keep asking her silly questions like what her favorite animal is. A monkey. Mine a snow leopard. Cute.
We keep vibing for the next half an hour or so. Not much happening, but everything happening. Blondie notices our chemistry from her chair. She's returned a while ago. As has Kay, who's now taking care of blondie. In the beginning my girl still wanted Kay, but he messed up somehow. I was a little afraid to go for his girl, since it's the approacher's choice. But he seemed cool with it. Now my girl was in love with me. We started talking about deeper things. What I do. I talk about directing, acting, wanting to do motivational speaking, etc. She wants to travel and work with kids. She needs to travel at least once a month. I love this girl. She asks my age and I say that if I tell her she won't like me as much anymore. I tell her to guess. She guesses 29. I shake my head with a smirk. She guesses 34 playfully. I say 22. She doesn't believe me. I say that she doesn't like me now. The opposite happened. Her attraction went up. She starts telling me how I don't act like a 22 year old, and that usually one can tell if someone is 22 by their behavior. Not with me. She's 28. I'm flabbergasted inside. She looks 21, truly.
I see some candles behind me and put one of them on a table. She says I have changed the atmosphere. It's romantic. I put it back and grab another one. I say this candle has more character. I tell her to teach me the word romantic in Slovak, she says there are many variations, and that it depends on the noun that follows. I say romantic atmosphere. She says Romantic in Slovak. I repeat it, adding a guess for the word atmosphere. She's surprised. I am right. I, too, am surprised.
We keep talking. We move onto logistics. She lives close-by. 20 Minutes by bus. But we all want to bounce to another bar. I tell her about a bar I know and that they should come. She seems eager.
We stay in this location for a while longer. Her friend gets more and more drunk, and Kay seems a little bored. But I'm enjoying it all. In the end we decide to leave the bar and bounce.
Outside she and I walk as a pair, I tell her to hook her arm into mine. She does. At one point I grab her hand and just shove it into my jacket pocket, holding her hand in there. She's so interested and invested, it's nuts. We're a fucking couple, who haven't even kissed yet. Amazing.
We cross the road, wait for the other two, and keep walking. My bar is closed. She takes us to another. At this point our physicality subsides, as we look for bars that are open. Not a lot are. We take a good 20 minutes to find another bar, which isn't really our style, but has alcohol so we go in. It's overcrowded, but oh well. We order drinks, and she buys me a drink together with hers and her friend's. I told her I would get the next round.
Anyway we move to a spot where we can actually stand and she becomes distant. She begins to dance with her friend, who's even drunker now. Kay's just standing there. I'm thinking stay in set, stay in set. We don't talk much, it's as if we've run out and lost interest. Our vibe is very much friend-to-friend now. I go to the bathroom to give everyone a breather, taking my attention away from them. I return and don't really know how to restart. But I've done this before. It's time for the close. I go up to her and ask her what her schedule is like next week. She gives me a list of shit she's doing next week, as if telling me she is super busy. I say Wednesday evening let's go for a drink. She says she's working late, and offers no alternate date. I ask her if she has an English number, she says yes. I say we should exchange contact details. She agrees and I get out my phone. She punches in her number and I call it. She opens up the number on her phone and types in my name. She asks if I have a nickname. I say Snow Leopard. Cute. I punch in stupid shit into the contact details, and now she wants to be called Monkey in my phone. I agree and get it out, she punches in some stupid Monkey shit and some Uuuuaaaa shit. Funny. After this we keep chatting. We laugh at times, but our physicality has subsided. Her friend is quite wasted, rubbing herself on Kay at times. Kay seems to be enjoying pushing her buttons, which I find funny.
My girl goes to the toilet. The bar is almost closing. We want another drink. When she comes back I say we are gonna leave as well, but she doesn't want to yet. She wants another drink. She and I go to the bar, but the bar rings and it closes. Disappointed we return to her friend, who's now chatting up some other dude in a funny red costume. We wait for her friend by the door, then we all leave, Kay included. We walk to her bus, Kay and I in front, them behind. We reach their bus after a little while. We say goodbye and that it was nice to meet them, hugging and cheek kissing and shit. OK cool. They get in the bus, and we walk back. I'm disappointed in myself. I could've made the move for the kiss at some point there. I was just too afraid to lose her. I allowed myself to fall in love immediately. Damn it was so fucking nice. Maybe this was all I needed for the night. Just an amazing flirt. Anyway, I know I could've escalated it further, especially when we were walking hand in hand, when she was eating straight out of my palm. Sllovakian girls are so fucking beautiful, it's insane.
We hang around the bar a bit longer. Kay talks to a girl he talked to inside the bar. He chats her up. I enter the conversation after they stare at me staring into the distance, thinking about Slovakian girl. Turns out the chick is Spanish, and we speak Spanish with each other. I tell her I lived in Spain. She teases me, I tease her. Chicks are just attracted to me now. It's hard to explain. I'm not even doing anything. I'm quite boring in my vibe actually, or just extremely chilled. I'm tired. I tell Kay that I'm going to go home. Apparently he got cock-blocked by some friend of the Spanish girl's, and he's a little thrown off. He asks for the number very incongruently. She doesn't live in London, but comes down often. He tries to convince her of meeting up, telling her she comes down often anyway, it's only 30 minutes away by train. She ends up giving him a card. Damn.
We end up walking back to the center of Camden Town, where we talk for a little, and then part ways. I walk to my bus and that's the end of my night apart from a few more people drunkenly coming up to me and asking me dumb questions.
Notes: I should've made the move at one point. It's so important to do game for game, not for the girl. I should've stopped her in her tracks, looked her deep in the eyes, and just kissed her. No bullshit. If she would've turned away, who cares. Move on. But I felt scarcity. And I felt importance with this girl. I wanted to go home with her and just chill with her, maybe have sexy time with her. But at the same time I didn't. I just wanted to chill here right now. Anyway, I was extremely chilled, at one point it felt like I was in a constant trance, not putting in too much effort, and her neither, but the spark was still there. Then it went away. But she bought me a drink...and stuck around...Anyway, I will most likely never hear from her ever again. I am calling either tomorrow late afternoon/evening, or in two days. Fuck knows. I need to go out more. Bavarian girl wasn't even once on my mind when I was with Slovakian girl. In fact Slovakian girl beat Bavarian girl on so many levels. Bavarian girl is pretty and hot, but Slovakian girl is just a beautiful girl. Amazing face, body, etc. Amazing vibe. Anyway, need to game more now. Fuck it. Game to game again. Do crazy shit again. Stop giving a fuck again.
My mind is so much clearer now after this, especially concerning Bavarian girl. Game really puts everything back into perspective. I feel so much better, my mind is relieved. I love game.