Wow ok this may be a long post but i'll keep the first part as short as possible since it was a uneventful night
Went out solo didnt expect any of my mates to go out so I didnt even bother messaging anyone. Went to a 2storey bar and used advice from pumpington for the night. Aim was to first open everyone or as many girls as possible in the club. Wait 10-20min then go back in with an SOI then wait for them to reapproach. In short it wasn't succesful, HOWEVER a asian/latino bartender smoking hot will remember me now. Next time I see her i'll be making moves (tbh i was a bit intimidated the first time i met her). Also a bouncer at another club should remember me so i gained some social proof plus i met a guy there that i only met once before briefly and because he knew everyone that worked there he was getting me free drinks and food all night
I felt great this night and knew that what I was doing was correct to get SNL's thankyou Stelar. Me and a group of friends/some girls headed to this club I have never been to and I have to say its now my favorite club. The setout is amazing and girls were plentiful. Since we arrived before 10pm I knew it was too early to pull girls so I chilled with my friends and had fun until 11:30pm. We were all sitting on this couch thing and had a view of everyone walking in and the bar and there was this tall blonde walking around dancing with her friend. What caught my eye was her g-string
. They were 2 meters away from me dancing i go up to the blonde and say this.
Me: "Hey I have to be completely honest and open with you. I think you are attractive and i want to fuck you."
She is now grinning with excitement
Her: "I dont think my boyfriend would be too happy
Me: "Oh you have a boyfriend? Well I am not going to apologize for what i want"
And I walk off back and sit with my friends. As they walk off to the outside area I catch her looking at me smiling with excitement. That right there made my night
. Maybe she was still down and I had to work around it but tbh I completely forgot about the bf response and wasnt ready for it.
I see this girl sitting down by herself go up and say the same thing, she slaps her hand on her forehead smiling and laughing? I tell her im giving her time to recover and she responds thinking its a joke.. this one I dont get maybe this girl was retarded.
Yeah yeah, I only tried with 3girls but I will explain now why. First a bit of back story, this girl is sort of a family friend but not really. I have never spoken to her ever and I see her maybe once a year. She is half indian and i have always been attracted to her but she was younger than me but now shes 18
Through the night she had walked past me a couple times and I caught her looking at me, I really could not be fucked talking to her I wasn't interested in being social with anyone except my friends its a waste of time when you want to get laid. Also i was really only being social with my mate, the girls in our group i didnt really know but it was funny because the less i talked to them the more they talked to me and wanted my attention LoL.
Ok Around 12 she approaches and sits down next to me (this girl has balls i never get approached). We are talking and she tells me shes always had a crush on me and thought I was cute. I then tell her I think shes cute right now. Now this is parts of the convo I dont remember it all.
Me: "So who are you here with?"
Indi: "A bunch of girl friends of mine"
Me: "Im hesitant to be what I am really like around you because the fact that you might tell my cousin"
Indi: "No I wont
, and now I am intrigued!"
Me: "I am a dirty boy"
Indi: "Well I guess that I am a dirty girl"
(At this point i was thinking wow, this girl is 18 and is already more sexually forward than any girl I have ever met)
Me: "What are you doing later?"
Indi: "I am not sure"
Me: "Do you want to come home with me?"
Now just some chitchat about logistics i tell her i live with my parents but it will be ok. She grabs my phone and puts her number and tells me to call her in 5min and walks out.
This is where it goes down hill. I call her and she says text me i cant here u, 20min later she meets me outside the club but is walking back in with her friends wtf? I tell her im leaving but she wants me to come back inside i dont. And start walking to my car.
This was right near the line and the girl from Thursday
- the last FR was in the line and saw the whole ...jealous??. I had told this girl on fb that there was something really important i had to tell her but i needed her numb, my plan was to be direct once i had the numb, i had the numb but didnt want to tell her there because i was going home and it would be pointless (I hope what i wrote makes sense). I think i will call her tomorrow.
Now back to the story: I was walking to my car and Indi girl calls me asking me to come back in so i say ok 10min. I get in and shes not even there i message her finally after 15min she turns up but doesnt come over to me instead is talking to her friend after 5min i had enough of these games and went up to her telling her im leaving and she didnt argue she just said ok maybe another night.
As i walk out she messages me "You have a cute ass"
I then start thinking maybe shes virgin and needs to know that i am not forceful so i message
"What is the problem? im not going to force you to do anything"
"If theres any problems tell me i am freezin in the outside bit atm come and talk il wait 5min"
She doesn respond so I msg "I am leaving now bye!"
No lay she flaked still dont know why but i felt confident in who i was and i was given respect by everyone.