28/11 -- Monday
Went over to Asian girls house. She can't fuck at the moment.
Spent 30 minutes cheering up a girl who had just been crying in the park
29/11 -- Tuesday
Had a little date with girl from street couple weeks ago. It was just a brief walk and 30 minutes of sitting down and making out. She was very sexual and hard for me to grasp. I should've just drove her to a quiet spot instead of going for a walk. She agreed implying she wanted to fuck me but left, and told me to call another day.
She was definitely one of the most sexual and hard-to-comprehend women I have encountered this year, if not the most. Vibing with her was like trying to catch something with butter fingers. It was just so weird, yet thoroughly enjoyable. OTOH I was a little disappointed I didn't have anyone to hang out with/ go for a walk with since I felt like I could do with a bit of extra human interaction; but she left so soon.
I went for a walk for another hour or two since I had already gone into the city, and I collected a number or two.
30/11 -- Wednesday
Friend left this day. Collected a number or two at the gym and went for a walk in the city during the day. The weather was shit. It was nice in the evening but by then I decided I wasn't not going out again.
1/12 -- Thursday
I think I walked around for a few hours collecting more phone numbers. No dates. This was like 4 days ago so I don't remember.
2/12 -- Friday
Walked around for a little while, approached about 10 ladies, sussed a date for the next day. Hung out with a friend. Worked for a few hours. Got a number from a lady working at a bar. She didn't text me that night.
Next day I sent her a text saying "blah blah hope you had a good night blah blah, when are you free so we can go for a quiet romantic drink" haha; I love trying new things, being bold and daring. I don't think she's gonna reply at this stage.
3/12 -- Saturday
Bit of a crap day, raging hormones. I've been cutting recently and I feel a little tired unclear and unfocused.
Mainly cause I slept much less. I woke up at 5am and stayed up till about noon then slept another 2-3 hours. Didn't do any study today
Met up with the lady around 8pm and we went for a walk. We then went to play pool but she told me she wasn't feeling attraction for me. I really respected her for this comment, I later sent her a text thanking her for being approachable, following through and then being honest to save us both time/effort.
Felt a little mentally weak and ended up jerking in the evening; that's only 7 days damnit. I'm shoot for at least 14 this time.
4/12 -- Sunday
Pushing myself to continue going out and not bitch out.
Spent 5 hours out. I went out for a friend with the intention to pick up chicks (for the first fucking time in my life) he only approached 1 lady in a friendly manner by the time I had done about 5. He joined in on some of sets and even though he's a pretty confident and smooth guy; he seemed a little phased by the whole concept of going out to pick up chicks. He would also talk lots and burst out with his energy. I feel like he may have killed a set
But my god I love him. This was way better than going out alone.
He seemed to enjoy it, I just wanna encourage him to focus and not be on his phone nor wander his attention too much. I've also gotten the dude to sign up to the gym which is solid start, I just hope he goes more than once a week!
He had to go and I ended up getting to about 12 approaches, collected a few phone numbers and potentially made a new friend, some girl who was wishing me luck hunting pussy etc etc.
I really wished I had gone out yesterday when it was sunny, there must've been like 5-10x more people out than there were today. I spent like 4 hours out today.. Geez I felt like I could've had the same results in much less time yesterday, but I spent like 2 hours obsessively analysing my text game. I also would've been able to get some instant dates I reckon, the atmosphere today was just not great like yesterday. And I was again a little tired so not at my sharpest level.
OTOH with all this consistency, even average days seem to be like good days some months ago.
My goal atm is to go out at least 6x weekly (going out includes dates/meet-ups -- 7 day streak at the moment.) ; while also first prioritising my language learning and my music. I need to make sure I am nurturing myself WHILE ALSO going out, improving and pulling. I cannot do one or the other. It must be both. It must be both YEAR ROUND. I want to be incredibly consistent with my game, not making excuses, but not ADDICTED in the sense it takes over my life
I've been reading a few articles and have tried adding in some new body language; slowing down my speaking and improving my annunciation. I've also worked on adding in flavour to my speaking in the form of accents; mainly for shits n gigs and I enjoy sounding more exotic. I'm frequently asked if I'm from somewhere else haha. I've been working on improving my logistics, working on getting the girl to give me a certain time and date. On Sunday I pushed much further with this in my interaction, asking 2-3 times when we could do (as opposed to just getting a number or asking 1-2) and with a lot more conviction on my behalf.
One thing I just did on my last interaction or 2 on Sunday was to "treat everyone like your best friend" something I read about being charismatic. Something I will DEFINITELY remember to do next time I'm out.
I could really feel my voice and my energy, my respect for women all really really developing over the last 2-3 days, it was amazing.
I imagine I'll just be going out in the day / early evening most of this month; and maybe next year I will take a SERIOUS crack at night time game.
Looking forward to improving my definition over the next month, improving my lifts, increasing the frequency and skill in my German, learning more guitar; making some money and fucking some sexy ladies.
Also I should post a little more frequently, it would be good to jot down what went well and what could improve instead of just making a mental note. Writing it down, I will remember it better.