18/10, 19/10, 20/10, 21/10 (Tue, Wed, Thur, Fri)
Talked to about 6-8 girls each day Tue Wed Thur
Fri I buckled down and did not approach any girls til about 11pm I went on tinder and sussed a quick date, we walked around for 15 minutes and I called it a night. I had an exam Sat morning.
Got a few numbers; also got a few buddies rocking up to me and asking me to show them how to approach girls; so they watched me. I didn't really want to at the time but I was incredibly flattered and felt personally obliged; especially after encouragement. I felt really good that they came up to me
Today (24/10) I called 3 of the girls and they are all busy atm. Fuck, they all answered immediately! Gains. I asked them all out; but I'll have to wait a week or two (will call back one of them this arvo).
Called up the girl from choir and texted her and she didn't even reply or answer. I was kinda disappointed.
22/10 -- Saturday
Had to have a family lunch since it was my birthday on 19th. I was freaking exhausted. I slept; hit the gym, and went out by myself. Such goodness to have alone time. I approached like 6 girls; I remember driving into town feeling bold as fuck but then it took me 30 minutes to approach a girl. I also got denied entry for being drunk; though I hadn't had a single drink. I think I give off an uninhibited loose vibe. I also changed my walk so it looks "wobbly" according to the bouncer.
One girl was over me and we went back to my car for a quick blaze. I tried to make out with her but she wasn't having it. I wan't too aroused into her drunkness so I didn't persist.
I lost a lot of time as I arrived late (1040pm instead of 930-10 ish as anticipated); 30 minutes wandering, then like an hour after that helping sort out the girls life as she had lost her phone/wallet. LOLz.
I didn't wanna go clubbing. I walked into one club but got edgy af after 5-10 minutes so I left.
I hit a few more bars; too many tourists. One beautiful German girl who was leaving the city the next day. I remember just persisting and touching her and coming closer to her every minute, even when she backed off. I was like WTF am I doing I woudn't usually persist so calmly. And she seemed to like me as time went on and we sat down for a little chat in the corner
no play though. It was definitely from reading the 60YOC book; I told myself I was gonna do exactly that and then I was a little surprised when it happened. She was smiling and laughing too !
In general I felt really calm and meditative since the first girl was over me; like I had a flow. And since I had finished my first exam I felt ALOT LIGHTER.
No play and home time alone; but at least I had fun.
23/10 -- Sunday
Woke up got out to the gym; today was gonna be chill as I've been working really hard recently. So I went into town afterwards and met a buddy. We walked around and I approached 2 chicks on the beach. Hoping it goes well with them. We talked for 30-40 ish minutes I feel; then we walked back to town together. No time to escalate as one was heading to meet a friend.
I wish we had approached more girls; but since I am kinda new to meeting/hanging with this guy; I tried to focus more on talking to him and getting to know each other and showing him around the area instead of flirting; but my urges were SO GODDAMN HIGH. We hung and I felt like I had wasted some time as we had been chilling far too long.
Messaged a girl on tinder and phone died; so I went into a a store to charge my phone and walked out. I then bumped into a backpacker I talked to for 2 minutes last night and he didn't recognise me but invited me to the hostel as they were going to go to the fireworks. I was gonna go home; all exhausted, but fuck it I'm a wild child. Bumped into my couchsurfer (2nd time today actually) from last weekend and i ended up going with her. Then we got there and my friend texted me to join.
So we listened to the fireworks (I listened) and then walked down the waterfront when we bumped into those uni buddies (some which asked me for help the other day as mentioned) and we wandered around. One of the kids is a little too bouncy with his energy, but he seems keen to game and actively meet chicks with me which is SUCH A FUCKING BONUS; might have to wait til after exams though.
It's good I am finally getting (decent) buddies who are willing to put in an effort or two, as long a I get the ball rolling. Such a bonus having someone to hang with as I meet women; lot more fun and I get a wing. Not saying that's the only way though
We all went to play pool and I was leading the way. I felt like such a god; a beast among men. Finally I felt like I had a bit of clan
We played pool and the couchsurfer shared a jug with us. I drove my mate home and I went home myself.
I was ULTRA ULTRA keen to approach more girls at the beach and during the day and even at the fireworks display today; but tbh I was just really happy to be hanging out with MY buddies, it felt like such a nice new feeling.
Went to bed at 2am but did not sleep last night... It's now 4pm and I've been awake for ~29 hours.
I don't feel like I can allow couchsurfer into my life; I don't feel she really adds value to me. She texted me to hang out for beer (earlier), she didn't even wanna play pool with us, just watch. I did meet her new black yoga friend who is SO HOT I would love to get into her; so I might give that another chance
24/10 -- Monday
Gymed with friend (haven't slept at all), approached one lady in the gym but her friend rejected me for her. Haha.