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PostPosted: Thu Sep 22, 2016 11:23 am 
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22/9 -- Thursday
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I spent the whole day socialising and virtually none working. :D
Met with a friend, we tried to get girls to play scrabble with us. Good o finally make a close friend, after 2 years. And a friend who is good with women! We ended up playing with another buddy of mine. I chatted up another girl but wasn't into her, so I just got her number in a friendly way; hoping to make scrabble buddies b

I met up with another friend at uni, then had a lunch date with a girl. I felt a really strong attraction to her, which took me by surprise as I didn't feel that way initially. She didn't kiss me

More attempts to study and nothing. Went to a friends gig and listened; and chatted up a girl there. Hopefully she returns my request and meets up. Cute Asian girl with GREAT style.

Organised a (small) deadlifting party for next month, got a solid lead on tinder (finally FFS), was invited to a birthday party. Quite a social day. work achieved? Ehhhh


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23/9 -- Friday
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Today was quite interesting in a few regards.
At 7pm I went out and wandered the street. Hit on a women.

-- I notice that I shouldn't walk passed, stop for a second as to discreetly check her out. Nah I should just stop in front of the group and check her out and comment. It's congruent to my nature. Not standing 5 metres away and pretending to be on my phone.

Went to a cafe to check it out, ended up talking to some lady. I really wanted to start a conversation and engage in something as to get out of my head. After about 15 minutes I was flowing nice and easy. I noticed the vibe was low and so was the attraction between us. Yet I hung around, played scrabble and took her for a short walk. I rationalised since I had sat down for 15 minutes and bought a coffee, I should try push it further. So I did. I've made this mistake before, but I feel tonight after we parted ways it really internalised. I am wasting my time not going for the hottie; or hanging around when there is a weak attraction. I have the feeling, the KNOWING, that I wont be repeating this behaviour.

To replay the scenario I would've sipped my coffee slower and after 15 minutes, I would've picked up and left the room to talk elsewhere or even returned to being alone; or even asked to get a take away. Life's too short for boring conversations.

I also partly rationalised hanging around her as I was expecting to go home by 11pm tonight. So I figured it would be a waste of time leaving and I should just enjoy the interaction... I feel like this is a weak mindset as it encourages me to "take my time" and essentially waste time. Had I left her around 8 or 815pm, I feel like i could've achieved a lot in 2-2.5 hours. I also have the feeling, the KNOWING that from today onwards; I am competent in avoiding time sinks.

On the plus side; the board game made the interaction more interesting and fun for me.


Something else from today:
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There were a few babes in UNI sitting together. I walked past. I came back and wanted to open them. I decided to go round the corner and talk to my friend and get her to wing me. So we did this silly thing where she would walk by from the other side of the corridor and I would pass and we would encounter and talk and mingle, as if we were good friends catching up.

It was quite a funny entertaining experience and the girls definitely noticed it, heard them laughing as we were doing this.

It felt really unnatural and stupid; but in a more general way I feel like I am getting a lesson in using wings and friends, and having friends share in your success.



Todays take away points :

dont settle
avoid time and energy sinks
learn to use a friend (and be a friend duh)
always warm up


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 25, 2016 12:05 am 
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24/9 -- Saturday
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O lifting, then gym, then Worked at uni for about 4-5 hours, hung with mate a while.
Got a little high went on my first tinder meet -up, was tripping out having revelations. Feel a strong pull to towards my friends house (even before it started) and I felt that I should be primarily focused on friends. Went to mates house, watched a movie and we went out.

I was still a little stoned going out, I started talking to a few women here and there; my friend wan't really initiating anything but when I did, he would be smooth and close. There was one lady i was into who seemed to like me, but at the time I felt like I just couldn't communicate with the other one. I couldn't keep exciting, or smooth with that other chick, I could however maintain boring. I lost confidence when another male was there. I had lost awareness of the situation. I felt I didn't escalate enough with the other girl in time. I coudn't hold my "frame" ... anyway I feel like I am learning and experiencing quite a bit of "frame" . They left to the bathroom, we waited 10 or so and never saw them again.

I'll say it, I am very unlikely to smoke before going out in future.

We went to another bar and danced and messed around; then another. I was pretty focused on hanging around my friend, as I'm trying to develop friendships.

I was quite disappointed that I didn't pull, but mainly so cause I hadn't put the proper effort in. I came out high, focused on my friend and a little later than I would like. My friend says he goes out just to go out and not to pull, and it felt quite challenging for me to be doing the two simultaneously.

Got to bed by about 430am, having spent the last 8-10 hours hanging out.

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25/9 -- Sunday
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Hung with friend, practiced languages; spoke to one girl at the gym


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26/9 -- Monday
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Managed to set up a Tinder date today. She messaged my first. She was quite cute.
Meet at 6pm

She was a little nervous as it was her first tinder date. When we sat in the cafe she made a distance from me.

Went to cafe, talked, played scrabble. She came up with the word "FIG" and used it in a sentence (I make them make sentences about words -- great conversational threading) and she said she had never eaten figs before. So I told her we would go to the supermarket and get some afterwards, she agreed.

We played, went and got figs, then I took her for a drive. I promised not to kill her. Took her to the beach/wharf. Kissed. Took her to mine for dinner, we bought some groceries.

Got home, made it to the bedroom and fucked.

A few hours later we made dinner, came back and fucked and fucked. I wasn't able to get to sleep til 7am. Woke up at 9am. I licked my first pussy that morning. The taste was strange, soapy and salty at first; but then I didn't really noticed it. I felt good eating out ma woman.

27/9 -- Tuesday
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Absolutely freaking tired ALL DAY, 2 HOURS OF SLEEP. Made it to the gym to a light exercise for about 15 minutes, said hi to one girl. Ain't going a day without Game.

28/9 -- Wednesday
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Told girl from Monday to meet on Friday. Chatted up 3 girls today. Got 1 number and 2 Facebooks. Hopefully they convert into something. They were all moderately attractive. One of the chicks had quite an interesting confident and unfiltered personality. Had coffee with a friend of mine. She's really awesome.

Had another tinder date to play scrabble, at the library. I love the message "so is this a hook up or actually scrabble" to which I replied actually scrabble. Anyway fast forward a few days later and here I am.

We played and she put down the word FIG. Internally I was flabbergasted at the coincidence of life. I almost told her my friend also put down FIG the other day; but I kept my mouth shut. She had also never eaten figs in her life. So I raved on about figs, and towards the end of the game I mentioned we should grab figs at the supermarket.

So we drove seperately to the nearby supermarket and grabbed some figs. Afterwards we were walking back to our cars, sat in mine, eating and making out. Internally I was laughing so much at the coincidence. I told her to come back to mine, but she has a 930pm curfew. Fucking 18 year olds with a curfew. The girl from Monday also got a lot of grief from her conservative parents for staying over. I feel like a bit of boss, knowing that the parents would disapprove. It adds a 'naughty' element to the game LOL.

I think I've kissed 10 girls this month so I've gotten a massive ego boost. Hopefully I can learn to drop my ego soon. And learn to keep girls.

The yoga on Monday seemed to be good for my game -- it calmed me down, and got me more chicks. I bumped into one of them I met the other day, today, while I was with a girl I had just met. I love it when I park my car and get out and walk up the little hill, meeting a cutie, then getting her to go back the way she came and walk me all the way. XOXO. That girl from yoga was sweet and petite and just a darling! Hopefully we get to know each other.

Mate told me one of his friend's say I was creeping on her. I still get this sometimes. I'm losing the ability to care.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 03, 2016 1:06 pm 
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29/9 -- Thursday

Studied, spent 13 hrs at ui

30/9 -- Friday

Tinder date from Mon bailed on me due to family reasons. Went to Salsa alone. Had a lot of fun.
Went to one of the teachers and told him I struggle to make friends at dancing. He said to focus more on the dancing and having fun and not chasing women.

1/10 -- Saturday
Olympic lifting, hung with buddies. Spent most of the time enganging in my friends. Approached 1 cute Austrian chick. Her body language spoke to me as if she wanted me. She was with her buddies and I left her my number but she never called. I should get these numbers... Always ask! I could've arranged something another day!

2/10 -- Sunday
Texting, facebooking and tindering too much. It's a disgusting life. I might've got my ins to keep an extra few girls as mates in future. I'm on track hopefully. Funny how people can busy all trimester yet answer your texts like a dog and can go out. I love hearing these excuses, it's genuinely funny, and I feel sorry for such individuals though. haha

3/10 -- Monday
Girl from last monday, met up, went for bush walk and sex. Went to uni to study at 530pm.


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4/10 -- Tuesday
Went to Salsa for an hour or two. Got slightly high beforehand.

5/10 -- Wed

6/10 -- Thu
Hung with that girl again, couldn't stay hard. Played scrabble with some friends, then went bachata dancing.

7/10 -- Fri
Mainly study and Choir

8/10 -- Saturday
Chatted up a few chicks while studying. One gave me her number, but logistically unlikely to meet up.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 09, 2016 2:32 am 
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Looking good bro. Keep it up. The ego thing is something you can work on later on. Anybody who is new and getting success will let it go to their head. All you need is to focus on seduction for now and calming that inner cocky later. You'll be fine. i was there in my university days.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 10, 2016 8:47 am 
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Thanks -- have pmed you some stuff

9/10 -- Sunday

Uni; an hour at salsa; a little wonder down the street with very slight conversation; trip to mates house

10/10 -- Monday

Uni; talked to about 4-5 girls ; 2 numbers and a "facebook" ... I only think the first number was a solid lead; 2nd one may have felt a little forced; not sure if the facebook girl was being polite or interested.

I invited the " ill add you on facebook" girl for a hot chocolate; but she declined saying she had to go home. She also had a bf. I just ignore when they say that; unless they're rambling on about it or sound serious. Next time I'll be more persistent in getting girls out on insta dates

Went to yoga and gym; missed on some oppurtunities; one of the girls from yoga left half way through :(


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Haven't yet met up with any of the girls

11/10 -- Tuesday
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Met a cute Vietnamese chick. Number + date arranged.

12/10 -- Wednesday
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2 strikes at supermarket.
Uni cafe; hit on girl. She gave me a strange look. So I left thinking she was not interested. A minute later I came back and said "wasn't sure if you were being shy or not interested" ... turns out she was shy. We talked for an hour or so and we're meeting up on Thursday. I learnt this today. A "rejection" is not always a rejection. It's how you perceive it ;)

Library - 2 more numbers.

A few odd conversations here and there.

13/10 -- Thursday
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1 strike at supermarket -- girl was in a rush
1 hot girl in the gym; PT; didn't get to talk to her though. She was real babe.
Uni -- too many pretty girls; I don't want to start talking to anyone though.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 14, 2016 1:26 pm 
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13/9
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Went out with that girl from yesterday. She was shy. Played pool. She sucked. Her conversation sucked. She was really mellow though. I like something in every girl. I took her to the beach. Tried to bring her home. I slightly hesitated in my invitation and that is bad game and is not acceptable.
She seemed like the virgin type.
I dropped her off back home and tried to kiss her in the car. She resisted slightly and had her hand on the door handle. I pulled her harder but didn't see a positive response... I mentioned "you can leave whenever you like" as I pulled. She said goodbye.

She had really beautiful bum and legs ;)

14/10 -- Friday
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One thing that is slightly starting to get to me is information overload.

Anyway. Didn't approach any girls at uni. Called one and she will text me; will chase her up if not.

Went on date with Vietnamese cutie. Tea. Pool. Beach. Dropped her off. Not even hand holding or a kiss lol. Clearly it works different with these girls. Didn't wanna come over to mine.

What did I learn today? I finally internalised "can't always have it your way" also for quicker bangs I may need to be selective in the type of the girl I ask out. I was confident this girl liked me more and was willing to go further tonight. When I tried to put my arm around her multiple times and she was giving a little distance; I thought she was just being shy. Turns out it was actually distance haha.

Hopefully I can get the other birds from the library out.

I spent an hour or so in a bar and approached a few girls. There weren't really any hotties (maybe 2-3); one of them waved to me and I went up to her, she seemed very familiar, except about 30-50 lbs lighter (in 6-7 months really?) and well toned. Didn't lead anywhere, I should've closed with a number of facebook; especially since shes into bodybuilding, and we already had a small connection. (I'd flirt with her in dance class jokingly -- she wasn't attractive. She's smoking now. Doesnt make sense?)

A few other girls. One decent Finnish middle aged women; but she was busy talking.

The one girl I wanted to go up to in the bar seemed busy with men.

I didn't wanna interrupt any engaging conversations (boring ones I will interrupt) and I wasn't in the mood to stick around (tired, already went out on date, priorities -- I love how I have to justify leaving to myself) and would like to go out earlier.

Talked to a guy I saw at the gym (and I played table tennis with in Childhood) turns out he's into "PUA" too lol; he seemed decently smooth


I was extremely calm today -- on the date; in the bar; meeting this guy. I think it is partially to do with adapting to not fapping; to having finished my stressful assignment; and giving my body a break. Dangggggggg

NEED TO FUCKING STUDY FIRST ;)


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15/9 -- Saturday
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Had a couchsurfer come over so I spoke/hung with her. We went into town and had a coffee the I went to choir. I spent about 4 hours there; pretty fun. I got one girls number from the choir to hang out.

Went to friends house afterwards. Got home 1am as I shouldn't be staying out too much.

Didn't approach any females today.

16/9 -- Sunday
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Went to the gym; supermarket; didn't study too much. Talked to some femalezzzzzzzzzzz at the gainz palace.

17/9 -- Monday
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At uni, was studying; started reading 60 YOC. Spent 2 hours reading / distracted; scouted every floor on the library. Too many girls have boyfriends; I ought to start exterminating the male population. I did get one number but apart from a possible date or quick fuck; it won't lead anywhere as she's spending the summer at home.

I started applying some of the things i had just read; I was picking up quite quickly

ALWAYS hold your hand in the hand shake, never let go.
Started doing the social - physical - sexual "barrier" thing; so I make sure to break as many daily as possible, one-by-one consciously
During those 5-6 chat-ups I tried to keep more of a deadpan face; and not "relieve" tension by laughing or speaking
Started developing the "it's for the next one" mentality.

Did this thing where I walked down the length of the library checking girls out; and when I got to the end I would have a line x-------------------------------x------------------x-------------
So I'd start at the back and make my way forward, one by one. That way I had the momentum going

I am kind of cringey; but I had a lot of fun :D just kidding I am pure beast.

#1 - met her twice; not available. Flattered.
#2 - didn't give me a positive response
#3 - said she was too busy to talk
#4 - seemed really enthusiastic; boyfriend. Flattered.
#5 - I was in the elevator and she came in as I got on my floor; so I went down with her. Talked for 5-10 mins, got her number. She's the one I mentioned. I said something stupid as I was trying to describe and internalise to myself something I read in 60YOC and mention it in terms of real estate -- something she mentioned. I was mentally cringing; but she didn't even give me the "you're weird look"
#6 - another girl in the library. I hit on her but realised she was unattractive. Spoke for 2 minutes.
#7 - another girl in the library -- has BF and pointed to him. She gave me you're quite fuckable you stud eyes though and was flattered.

VISUALISED some scenarios. I'm fucking ready for study tomorrow; going to go before noon and spend the whole day. Magic number is 20 for tomorrow. and I mean BIG MAGIC not the normal type ;)


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18/10, 19/10, 20/10, 21/10 (Tue, Wed, Thur, Fri)
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Talked to about 6-8 girls each day Tue Wed Thur
Fri I buckled down and did not approach any girls til about 11pm I went on tinder and sussed a quick date, we walked around for 15 minutes and I called it a night. I had an exam Sat morning.

Got a few numbers; also got a few buddies rocking up to me and asking me to show them how to approach girls; so they watched me. I didn't really want to at the time but I was incredibly flattered and felt personally obliged; especially after encouragement. I felt really good that they came up to me :D

Today (24/10) I called 3 of the girls and they are all busy atm. Fuck, they all answered immediately! Gains. I asked them all out; but I'll have to wait a week or two (will call back one of them this arvo).

Called up the girl from choir and texted her and she didn't even reply or answer. I was kinda disappointed.


22/10 -- Saturday
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Had to have a family lunch since it was my birthday on 19th. I was freaking exhausted. I slept; hit the gym, and went out by myself. Such goodness to have alone time. I approached like 6 girls; I remember driving into town feeling bold as fuck but then it took me 30 minutes to approach a girl. I also got denied entry for being drunk; though I hadn't had a single drink. I think I give off an uninhibited loose vibe. I also changed my walk so it looks "wobbly" according to the bouncer.

One girl was over me and we went back to my car for a quick blaze. I tried to make out with her but she wasn't having it. I wan't too aroused into her drunkness so I didn't persist.

I lost a lot of time as I arrived late (1040pm instead of 930-10 ish as anticipated); 30 minutes wandering, then like an hour after that helping sort out the girls life as she had lost her phone/wallet. LOLz.

I didn't wanna go clubbing. I walked into one club but got edgy af after 5-10 minutes so I left.

I hit a few more bars; too many tourists. One beautiful German girl who was leaving the city the next day. I remember just persisting and touching her and coming closer to her every minute, even when she backed off. I was like WTF am I doing I woudn't usually persist so calmly. And she seemed to like me as time went on and we sat down for a little chat in the corner :D no play though. It was definitely from reading the 60YOC book; I told myself I was gonna do exactly that and then I was a little surprised when it happened. She was smiling and laughing too !

In general I felt really calm and meditative since the first girl was over me; like I had a flow. And since I had finished my first exam I felt ALOT LIGHTER.

No play and home time alone; but at least I had fun.

23/10 -- Sunday
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Woke up got out to the gym; today was gonna be chill as I've been working really hard recently. So I went into town afterwards and met a buddy. We walked around and I approached 2 chicks on the beach. Hoping it goes well with them. We talked for 30-40 ish minutes I feel; then we walked back to town together. No time to escalate as one was heading to meet a friend.

I wish we had approached more girls; but since I am kinda new to meeting/hanging with this guy; I tried to focus more on talking to him and getting to know each other and showing him around the area instead of flirting; but my urges were SO GODDAMN HIGH. We hung and I felt like I had wasted some time as we had been chilling far too long.

Messaged a girl on tinder and phone died; so I went into a a store to charge my phone and walked out. I then bumped into a backpacker I talked to for 2 minutes last night and he didn't recognise me but invited me to the hostel as they were going to go to the fireworks. I was gonna go home; all exhausted, but fuck it I'm a wild child. Bumped into my couchsurfer (2nd time today actually) from last weekend and i ended up going with her. Then we got there and my friend texted me to join.

So we listened to the fireworks (I listened) and then walked down the waterfront when we bumped into those uni buddies (some which asked me for help the other day as mentioned) and we wandered around. One of the kids is a little too bouncy with his energy, but he seems keen to game and actively meet chicks with me which is SUCH A FUCKING BONUS; might have to wait til after exams though.

It's good I am finally getting (decent) buddies who are willing to put in an effort or two, as long a I get the ball rolling. Such a bonus having someone to hang with as I meet women; lot more fun and I get a wing. Not saying that's the only way though ;)

We all went to play pool and I was leading the way. I felt like such a god; a beast among men. Finally I felt like I had a bit of clan :D We played pool and the couchsurfer shared a jug with us. I drove my mate home and I went home myself.

I was ULTRA ULTRA keen to approach more girls at the beach and during the day and even at the fireworks display today; but tbh I was just really happy to be hanging out with MY buddies, it felt like such a nice new feeling.

Went to bed at 2am but did not sleep last night... It's now 4pm and I've been awake for ~29 hours.

I don't feel like I can allow couchsurfer into my life; I don't feel she really adds value to me. She texted me to hang out for beer (earlier), she didn't even wanna play pool with us, just watch. I did meet her new black yoga friend who is SO HOT I would love to get into her; so I might give that another chance ;)

24/10 -- Monday
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Gymed with friend (haven't slept at all), approached one lady in the gym but her friend rejected me for her. Haha.


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25/10 -- Tuesday
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Went for a walk around 5pm ( back now its 8pm) along the waterfront. There were many cute girls at uni but I was more interested in spending my time getting fresh air; so I didn't really talk to any girls at uni today.

#1 cute blonde girl at uni. I left her my number "salsifter, love of your life". Maybe she'll text me. I didn't ask for hers,
#2 girl sitting down listening to music. Seemed uninterested. Sexable.
#3 beautiful blonde. Said it was awkward. I asked if it was that I stopped her or that she has a bf. She said both. I wished her goodbye.
#4 2 girls playing frisbee. Played with them for 20 minutes; then I demoed some salsa for about 20 minutes.
Got one of their numbers so we may be in touch. One was quite hot and athletic.
#5 Jogging lady. She ran past me then I caught up to her and hit on her. She said she doesn't have time.
#6 Lady in kiosk. Went inside and said hi and that I was talking to her. We were walking out and she stayed inside the store while I was on the outside and we were talking between the door. It felt really funny in the situation and the shopkeeper was just like WTF. Tourist. Led nowhere
#7 hot lady talking to her friend. I waited 5 metres by and waited for convo to end. Then I stopped her and hit on her. I should be blunt in future; the way I describe it, she was not cute; she was GORGEOUS. She said she admiration for people like me. Asked me 'do you do this to people you don't know lots' or something like that. I said "I do what is necessary". No instant date. Didn't ask for number. She said "might see you round" with a tone suggesting she might actually be keen to continue talking
#8 walking to uni. Crossed the road and stopped at the bus stop. Talked to girl. She was cute and educated. She was catching her bus and I took the tempo too slow; so once bus came I couldn't ask for number (or didn't wanna force it) and figured bumping into her again would be my best bet
#9 another girl walked out of the bus. As we crossed the road I started chatting. She has a bf. Kept chatting and broke off.

OTHER (wasn't attracted to these ones)

#10 (earlier) another girl on my walk; I wasn't attracted to her though. She may have had a nice personality though, didn't get time to figure that one out. Also looking at another cutie walking by now... Will I ?
#11 (earlier) another girl I just told her I was bored and asked if she'd like to take a study break with me.

I passed up a few girls during my walk too. I used the excuse that they were with too many friends; or that I was just fresh out of a woman and didn't wanna approach immediately again without waiting.

Excuses are unacceptable. Slow down your speech before you approach; not after a few words.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 26, 2016 8:17 am 
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#12 from yesterday

Approached a gorgeous chick; we talked for ages; she had a really seductive vibe, asked her for drink and bang she has a bf. Got her number anyway to hang. We talked again today.

26/10 -- Wednesday
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#1 girl in library, I left her my number and she texted me. She was cute and a little shy
#(2) at this point I was really energetic and horny and couldn't handle my shit; talked to one girl and I left and blew it off. Approached another chick I already knew and tried to talk to her but she told me to leave her be. Went to meditate for 30-40

#2 -- Blonde girl in main hub; she lifts and was awesome. Started working on my verbal escalation -- told her we should get married. She has a bf! Got her number as she seemed really cool and with similar interests <---- VERBAL ESCALATION IS WHAT I LEARNT TODAY

#3 -- cute girl; worked on the verbal escalation and I fucked it up. I wasn't super into her. I came across as really creepy and awkward; but meh it was funny
#4 -- just round the corner another Asian girl, she hung out with me for about 30 in the hallway. Arranged to go to her house and show her some guitar some time. Damn; not tonight. Has an exam tomo. <-- worked on getting the "HAND CARESSING" going here. Lesson #2

#5 -- girl on another floor, uninterested
#6 -- left the floor and I was like fuck why didn't I approach that girl. My rationalisation was that they would see me going from one to the other . Fuck that. I have my reasons and my own personal desire. Talked to the next girl; didn't go anywhere.
#7 -- girl in elevator. I ran to the elevator and clicked the door to open; it opened and I went up. She was the last one left and I stayed and asked her to chat. Uninterested?
#8 -- girl in library. She had to go. I think I hit on her last year. Nothing.

There was another good floor but I didn't take any action on that one. I ought to go study. I love how my day only consists of talking to girls; studying and lifting. It could be be better.
There were some cute girls in the supermarket; but by the time I saw em I was like no I should head back and talk to the other ones. Dang. Never pass up oppurtunities man.

Next year I am hoping to be less gamey and just fit these in with my lifestyle more so -- yoga, gym (going to start doing daily yoga practice next year). OTOH; I don't see any harm in dedicating 30-60 minutes a day going sarging the floors; as long as it's not excessive.

I should really start going up to girls in groups at uni more often; I do it sometimes but no where near enough to nail in the formula. I also approached one guy that I had seen at the gym.

My voice is getting a little quiet and soft; I need to make sure I'm loud and clear ;)
Keep on keeping on.


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