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[Advice wanted] Hot HB10 - approached, kissed, sex - BUT...
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I'd like to hear some advice from you guys on a Situation I'm in:
Everything went well
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The smoking Hot HB10 Blondie
In short: Approached, Kino, Kissed, Made out, Sex
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I met this girl on a spiritual retreat. Blonde, extremely cute and sexy, clever. Clearly an HB10. So I did my thing, was in a light and playful mood (also with the other girls around) and made sure that I also showed Interest.
Approaching was relatively easy and I immideately went into Kino, Kino, Kino + a little Teasing.
While we were playing a card game with a group of others she sat next to me and I made sure to add a little tension by turning up the heat a little. E.g. stroking her upper thighs and occasionaly moved my hands closer to her butt. All this had a little "forbidden/secret" touch to it, since we where not alone.
At some point she asked me where I was sleeping. (Sidenote: We all slept in the same room with sleeping bags)
I replied: "Same place you sleep."
To make a long story short:
That night we made out in a room full of other people. I could feel a fantastic connection with her and just enjoyed the moment. She came three times. After the third time she said "Damn, I want to sleep with you so bad." That wasn't possible in the crowded room, because it would have been way too loud. So we grabbed the blankets, snuck away and had crazy sex in the dinner-room. And boy was she hot... hew...
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The Problem:
In short: She played me. At least a bit. I noticed her game too late
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Next day (last day of the retreat) we talked and at some point I became genuinely interested in that girl. She went to the same countries I had been visiting, she did martial arts which I do as well, shes interested in all that spiritual stuff which I'm too...
After the retreat she got in touch via SPAM, which I thought was a very good sign.
Unfortunately she lived 500km away from my place. That sucked. However over the next two weeks I kept thinking about her (developed oneitis maybe?). We still wrote but more often than not I found myself waiting for replies, that sometimes wouldn't come at all.
Anyway, a few weeks later, I needed (and wanted) to visit her city for four days.
I was happy about that and wrote her.
She was happy and asked what my plans where.
I told her that I wanted to see her.
She said yes.
After that I slowly began to see a pattern emerge:
She would always drop hints that she wanted to see me ("Where are you?", "What are you doing tomorrow?") but then not reply or not show up. In the end we didn't meet. At least to her last message ("Sorry, cant make it. But when are you leaving tomorrow?") I did reply with some dignity intact ("Early. Let's just leave it. This doesn't feel right for me at the moment.").
All that got me thinking:
In hinsight she told me exactely what I wanted to hear on the retreat and the weekend, so that I would chase her. The Travels, the Martial Arts thing, the Text-Messages. So I guess I lost to her game. But to be fair, she played a good game.
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The Question:
In short: Can I recover? How would you approach/solve this?
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Can I recover?
How would you do it?
Any advice?
Important note:
Yes, she's crazy hot and I want to fuck her a thousand times more, but I'm prepared to just walk away. It's fine.
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