Good question.
I find that we many times fall into comfort and most men fall, in love with comfort, over the girl. It makes you ask yourself what are my goals in game? What do I want out of it since this very well could be my goal. FInding a bomb ass girlfriend and being happy in life, hoping that it lasts.
My goals in game are very similar to what Style recently stated 'Grimble and TwoTimers' goals were, in the section of the book that I am currently, which is "Novelty, they just want to constantly have new girls coming into and out of their lives."
The trick is how do I balance that while I am balancing a professional career that does not allow me to stay up past 2 any nights and be out until 5am on nights that I close. Still figuring that out for sure.
To answer your question, I honestly cannot say.
Many times, what I was doing was intentional and planned, many times I had no idea what the cat I was doing but going with the flow of things, or with the flow of the night. Many areas of the relationship were taken serious, however I find that when I am not 100% aerodynamic, I am not happy. What that means to me is, since I care about my lifestyle and career above all else, if a girl is inhibiting my performance to make money, to set goals and have unreasonable drive to achieve those goals, than it is not worth staying with for me. I would like a girl that kicks my ass and pushes me to do better, not one that just wants to have it be "us" all the time and sit around and eat and watch Netflix. That is comfort, and also the end of progression.
Now onto a question that has been plaguing my mind lately and Im sure I am not the first.
Has anyone that reads this, have had the thought about vasectomies, to cut out the risk of accidentally having a kid in game, no matter how cautious you are with condomns? Serious Question...