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stekehmrt
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 Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 3:18 pm Post subject: Eyes Wide Shut |
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hey yall
ive got this girl and she likes the movie "Eyes wide shut"
i was wondering, what kind of movie is this. and referring to women psychology; could she be interested in the sexual part ?
i mean i heard you should check what kind of books your woman likes in order to understand her sexual preferences.
i would like some feedback on this
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 7:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Watch it and figure out why she likes it. Watch it with her and discuss it. It will bring you closer together and you could learn some helpful things about her sexuality, cause that's all that EWS is about. |
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EWS ? 
hahah i will, thank you for your reply
the thing is though, i read the plotline on the internet. its about a girl who cheats on her man for sex and she liked it :s and the girl gets to watch (or the man gets to watch, not sure anymore) how she gets fucked by 2 men from a weird conspiracy 
honestly this freaks me out, like i think its a pervert film :s
i really think its fkn disgusting, makes my stomach do backflips when i think about it..
hope she doesnt cheat on me
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| stekemrt wrote: | EWS ?
hahah i will, thank you for your reply
the thing is though, i read the plotline on the internet. its about a girl who cheats on her man for sex and she liked it :s and the girl gets to watch (or the man gets to watch, not sure anymore) how she gets fucked by 2 men from a weird conspiracy
honestly this freaks me out, like i think its a pervert film :s
i really think its fkn disgusting, makes my stomach do backflips when i think about it..
hope she doesnt cheat on me
thanx for your reply dude |
I think you're being a bit closed minded here. Sure, it's a rather dark film and that is the intention to make your feel mixed up, but it's considered art by many critics, there's reasons for what goes on, it's not just about being perverted.
By running away from this and not trying to understand it, you are burning a bridge that she has given you, to reach her and grow closer to her. If she told you that she fantasized about having sex with 2 men, it sounds like you would probably be freaked out and run away, when really you should talk to her about it and let her know that you understand that fantasies are healthy and normal. People fantasize about all sorts of things, I have read the fantasies of women that think about having all their bones broken while having sex, but although that's what gets them off, they are otherwise healthy people that would never truly want that in real life. By shunning this, you are cutting yourself off from her and won't be able to establish a deep deep connection without hitches. |
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 10:51 pm Post subject: |
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| i never thought about it that way |
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| Eyes Wide Shut is a very good movie about sexuality. I would recommend that any PUA watch it just to see it... it isn't really relevant to pickup but it is interesting to see about social sexual dynamics. |
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