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Blintz
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 Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 3:17 am Post subject: Explain Negging |
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Okay guys,
I have tried to wrap my brain around this and figure out how to successfully pull this off in the field, but every time I try to Neg a female, I come off as an asshole. I do not mean to be a dick, but i guess I just dont get the concept of negging and how to pull it off. Can someone please explain to me what it is and some useful examples of how to do it so I dont get evil glares or women just trying to get away as fast as they can?
I look forward to many different opinions on this one.
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Rye Lee
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TheMoneyMan1
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Neg to play with a womans mind to let her know that she is not all that, most women think they are all that they are special. (specialy HB10).
Nice nails are those real, oh no, ah well I guess their nice anyways or do you dye ur hair, oh you do, oh okay, I guess it looks good.
Your not insulting her, your just letting her know that she has flaws and that she is not perfect and that your not putting her on a peddestal like all the other AFC, good luck. |
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| TheMoneyMan1 wrote: | | Your not insulting her, your just letting her know that she has flaws and that she is not perfect and that your not putting her on a peddestal like all the other AFC, good luck. |
Its even simpler than that. Your false disqualifing yourself as a potential suitor, for two reasons. First, if shes hot, like all hot girls she'l think, wtf isn't this guy trying to win me over, otherwise she would just recognise you as another 'nice afc' and deal with you accordingly. Secondly, if she's with other people and almost guaranteed she is, a false disqualifier will disarm them, meaning they won't think you potentialy want her for sex. |
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| TheMoneyMan1 wrote: | Nice nails are those real, oh no, ah well I guess their nice anyways or do you dye ur hair, oh you do, oh okay, I guess it looks good.
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So that is a good example of showing her flaws? I have heard the nails one a lot, is that a good one to use? |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 1:24 am Post subject: NEG |
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NEG- a statement of action made to briefly and without insult disqualify oneself from being perceived as a potentional suitor.
Examples; too bad I'm gay, Where's your off button, You can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere, No touchy, I've eaten girls like you for breakfast, you're too much of a nice girl for me, Oh you're a (occupation) I can't event talk to you right now.
The better looking the woman the more aggressive your negs typically need to be. With a ten you may need to neg up front. With an 8 maybe just one or two. *Get as close as you can to the breaking point without crossing the line.* Being in the field and calibrating will help with this. When you reach the point where she is about to retaliate, start appreciating things about her, BUT NOT HER LOOKS.
If you go to far, allow her to vent her emotions by voicing her opinion of you entirely first. Then say, "I'm monumentally sorry. I didn't mean to step over your boundaries. I merely intended to find them. Now that I know where they are, I promise...I will not cross them again. I'm sorry!"
These are Mystery's words not mine~
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