Haha, if you get any tips let me know. I'm in the same situation. I'm hanging out with her today, taking her out on a motorcycle ride (her choice) and seeing how it goes. Best bet would be to let her know when you do something cool, and tell her that if she wants to be a part of it she can, if not, then don't show that you care at all. If she comes then just work on your game a little bit, and if it happens, be straight forward that you dont want another relationship.
lot of kino and teasing and flirting seem to work. getting her alone it working great for me. my ex is sending me nude pics now. time for the kill.