EasyLover's Breakthrough

EasyLover · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 5:47 pm Post subject: EasyLover's Breakthrough

Since being on this site I’ve seen there are guys who get how it all works and guys who just don’t get it. There’s fake wannabe bad boys(the try hards) then there’s actual bad boys on here believe me there’s a difference.
I’ve come to the conclusion that most of the guys on here are nice guys trying to become a PUA but yet they haven’t shed the nice guy. Some of you are just outright lame afraid to push boundaries with a girl I see a problem when you’ve been hanging with a girl for weeks and never made a move on her and then you’re wondering if your in the friend zone. There’s people who ask for help and even after everyone’s helped they reject it continue to do it there own way and continue to fail. Some people consistently give pointless or ineffective advice but they think its good advice I get a certain aura from people writings I can tell who’s who level wise Some of you guys who think you get it really don’t….

I think it takes a certain level of genius to understand how the PUA books like Mystery or Style work. I’m not referring to book smart genius either. I think its easier for street smart individuals and people with an already natural bad boy personality to have a better understanding. But beyond that it takes a certain something to truly understand it all and reach new levels. Nice Guy PUA’s you’ve got to make that breakthrough to the Darkside of PUA if you want to really be successful.

xxIcexx · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 6:06 pm Post subject:

very well said

if i can put that in my own words

grow some cojones

SouthernCross · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 6:38 pm Post subject:

I've thought the same thing for a while. Some people get it some and some never will. It does take a certian type of person to use the power of this game. It is easier for someone on the darkside not scared to push the limits to reap the benefits

saqchek · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 8:23 pm Post subject:

I agree with EasyLover on this point as well. The problem I see with a lot of users is that they don't seem to have really read the material or researched it. Had they, they would have the answers to most of their questions within hands reach. Most of these people want "game" served to them on silver platter. Much like going to school and cheating off the smart guy because you are too fuckin lazy to do your own studying.

What I have is experience. Mystery Method was the final piece of the puzzle that put it together for me. I felt like Neo did in the Matrix after discovering the world he had known was only a false perception, and that the reality of things is much, much different. For this very reason, I plan on using Matrixx as my PUA call sign. Cheesy yes, but it has its meaning.

I was around my mother a lot growing up, and I was very compassionate and romantic towards women in my early years. It caused me nothing but heartache and agony. With this revelation of MM, everything from my first girlfriend at 16 to now hit me, and I knew why I failed on the occasions I did. I know now what I could have done differently to have change the course of action, and what I need to do in the future to avoid the same mistakes.

The problem with most of the people up here is their fear of failure. Do you know how many game winning shots Michael Jordan missed in his lifetime? I can assure you it was way more than he made. Is he known for those missed shots or for those winning ones? (NCAA/NBA championships) A champion is never afraid of taking those shots, whether it be on the court or with a woman. He's not afraid because he knows there will be other times and other situations ahead and he'll have another chance to redeem himself should he miss.

That is my word to you guys. Don't be afraid of missing the shot. Give your best and learn from your mistakes so that the next time you are in the situation, you'll know exactly what to do (and what not to do) to succeed. Game on my fellow brothers.

Starbuck · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:02 pm Post subject:

The darkside? Laughing

Haha, this is hillarious.

You guys into hero worship or something? You know like Superman, etc..? Or is this PUA stuff for some just a way to take a giant shyt on women who refuse to go along with the program?

Surveys indicated the average American woman has had 4 sex partners in her entire life. Some a few more, some less. Most men claim they've had around 10.

So somebodies lying. Regardless, it's not a whole lot and not as many as some would have you believe.

If a you bed a woman fast, it says more about her and less about you. Always has, always will.

I think some people here need to learn to separate social skills from sex. Although one helps one to get the other, one doesn't always guarantee the other. And if you think it does you're not living in reality and maybe you need a little more than another book. Laughing

I realize we have a great many really young and inexperienced guys here. Sometimes it shows.

saqchek · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:07 pm Post subject:

Starbuck · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:12 pm Post subject:

saqchek · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:20 pm Post subject:

Starbuck · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:23 pm Post subject:

saqchek · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:29 pm Post subject:

Furthermore Starbuck, you talk and act as if you are superior to others. Real alpha men don't need to boast about their experience or feel the need to berate others as you so kindly do. My guess is you have issues you need worked out. If you would like, I can arrange a couch for you so that we can have a talk about them.

I'm glad you are happy with your 1 woman relationship, but believe it or not, many of us don't want to settle down right now, or haven't met a woman worthy of that type of commitment. I think you miss the whole point of these forums. It's to help out guys in their struggles attracting and dating women. If a PUA choses to sleep with 100 women at once, it's his business. As long as he's honest with the people he's with and with himself, it's fair game and a natural part of life. What isn't natural is monogamy. Are we the only species on the earth that have this lifestyle?

saqchek · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:33 pm Post subject:

SouthernCross · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:36 pm Post subject:

saqchek · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:39 pm Post subject:

Starbuck · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:40 pm Post subject:

EasyLover · Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:41 pm Post subject:

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