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nuk1m
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 Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:26 pm Post subject: Easy question |
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| How exactly do you guys ask a women out on a phone? Do you say, "we should hang out today," or do you ask them if they want to hang out. Just curious as to the best way to word it. |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:36 pm Post subject: |
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Easy Question, with an even easier question. I'm glad you asked this though because there is simple method for this. Basically, you invite her out when you are already doing something with friends. This way if she says No for any reason you're still going to have a good time with your friends. It's when you make special time for just her, you are DLVing yourself (demonstrating lower value). When she has the impression that you are always busy you DHV (demonstrate higher value). So it goes like this.
#1 Way- "Hey my friends and I are having a good time at the mall, do you want to tag along?" If she says Yes, act like it's no big deal. "Ok, we are xxxx mall, we'll meet at xxx" IF she says No, that's cool me and my friends will hang, later. Click.
Alternate way- "Hey, I'm heading to the xxxx to get some shoes, you wan to tag along?"
Second thing that you need to know about phone gaming is absolutely do not call her every day. Wait a day or two before calling her back if she leaves a message. DHV yourself by showing that you are busy and not always home sitting there, whether you are or not.
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The Wild One
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| Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 7:32 pm Post subject: |
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| Well I try to get the f-close of the second day, but if your newer to the game it's best to call twice and not ask her out till the third call. |
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nuk1m
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| Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 8:07 pm Post subject: |
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| Good deal. I just asked this broad if she wanted to come along to Ikea cuz I need to buy a chair. This is a great place for day 2's or first date. |
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JSmooth
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Great Idea! Invite her out to help you pick out something for your place. Because she will definately have to come see how it works in your place that day or at a later day. Smoothness!  |
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The Wild One
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| Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:50 am Post subject: |
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Smoothness!  |
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