This is one that's bothering me a bit - and it may just be because I'm lacking in some skills (hence why I'm posing it to you guys ) but there's a couple of things about my sarging that are currently bothering me which I'd like some advice on.

First and foremost is the obvious one - getting them in the sack. Now I have no problems whatsoever with K Closing, number closing, even getting day 2's - but there seems to be a vibe I'm giving off that either a) I'm only after one thing or b)(as one of my friends suggested) that I'm worth having for the long haul and am therefore getting loads of resistance (nice guy).

Now - in terms of the nice guy thing, I'm not sure how it's possible because I neg a lot. But I keep getting girls turning round and saying "dont think you're getting any of that just yet" - even when I neg them for wanting me "for my body" lol! I've even had LMR once a girl was butt naked in my bed! Worst.feeling.ever!! Tried freezing out to certain extents but usually it fails!

Secondly, it's a funny one - it's obvious the attraction is created because of K Closing, solid numbers etc - but the thing I'm also questionning is about women showing attraction - like it always seems to me that I can't see it or notice it that much (I suppose I want a woman to throw herself at me - that might be good!), but it seems I'm always the one "doing the work" to transition through stages - and then it doesn't seem like they're massively into it in spite of K Closing?!

Any thoughts!

Thanks as always!

Making your intentions known (only interested in one thing) isn't a bad thing if the ATTRACTION is there. She may try and play her childish games (like all women do), but if her IL is up, she will welcome all advances. If there is no attraction, and you try to make your intentions known, you are heading for failure.

I won't go into being a nice guy and where that will end up. I'm sure by now we all know what happens.

Negging women does not equal attraction. It's just one method for communicating that you are not a chump and don't need her approval. You have to possess the right attitude and demeanor for negging to work. It is very easy to come across as an immature jerk, instead of a cool confident Alpha.

You may want to consider reading an ebook or 2 that covers how women communicate their interest without verbalizing it. Once in a while you may come across a woman with little or no inhibitions that will throw herself at you. But for the most part, you have to watch her behavior. Women will let you know that they want to f*ck (or at least take things to the next level) without saying one word. I know that doesn't make much sense but this is women we are talking about lol.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Lol! That's very true! Women are strange beasts and working them out is half the fun! I usually do quite well with the negging as I'm really playful with it (playful's my natural style).

Have you got any recommendations for ebooks that cover that stuff? Bedtime reading!

Very true, working them out is fun. Personally, I've always enjoyed the chase and banter. Once I know they are a sure thing, I tend to loose interest.

Just do a search on google, I'm sure you will find ebooks AND articles that cover how women communicate sexual interest.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene