8 dates is quite alot to still be struggling to get day 3's or more. This year I have been on around 100 first dates(crazy I know). I do day game 5 days a week and i usually have 4-5 first dates a week. I remeber when I first started going on dates it took 2-3 before I would start getting good results.
I cannot see what your doing wrong without more information or watching you. But I will give you a model of what I do, you can take the bits you like and dismiss the bits you think wont work:
- I first tell them to meet me at the station closest to my house (makes them invest by travelling).
- When we meet outside the station I am smiling and above all else completely calm(this will come with time). As I am walking towards her I will judge how much she has invested by looking at her makeup/heels/way she is dressed. If she has made an effort(90% of the time), I will compliment by saying 'you looking amazing, how you doing?' This works due to the fact im not looking for a reaction from the compliment, infact i just say it as a statement and ask a question before she replys. While i say this we hug.
- We then walk together towards the nice, quiet, dark and cheap cocktail bar near my house. During the walk one of the first things I will say is 'were you nervous about meeting me?' (almost always yes/a bit/maybe) judge there complience by how they reacted to the hug, if it was positive, start holding there hand after they answer and say 'you dont have to be nervous around me
' while looking into her eyes.(just please dont do that in a creepy way haha, might take a little practice).
- When you get to the bar(I saw this in a pua video about body language, but this works 100% of the time if the kino leading to this worked). Walk to the bar with her, you should be talking about lots of things now, getting to know each other there should be no awkward rush to get drinks. Order two drinks and two tequila shots. Explain to her your going to teach her how to do the 'whatever(you choose) shot'. Say this in a fun way and she will definatly be up for it, if your not coming off as a creeper by this point. Just a note, it doesnt matter who pays for these drinks, I usually say ill get the drinks you get the shots or whatever just make it unawkward, 50% of the time I will pay for both... So anyway, you have your drinks and shots, now walk to a quiet table and sit next to each other! That is so important, if she sits opposite just tap your hand on the seat next to you and say 'come sit here'.
- Now with the tequila, you go first, let her know you will show her how to do it. Firstly say 'by the way I hate tequila
'.. Next you put the salt on her hand the lime/lemon in her mouth and basically do a normal shot just off her body instead. After you have done this, make a face like it tastes disgusting and even move away from her slightly. You can either K-close now or after she does the same. Dont use a routine dont say anything just look into her eyes and do it. You should have been touching quite alot by now anyway.
- After a K-close the date is easy, it takes an average of 20-30 mins to get to this point.
- Now just keep it cool and calm, tell her about yourself, listen to her and enjoy learning about her. while doing this keep a sexual vibe, kiss her neck seductively, play under the table, do whatever you have the balls for basically, you will get away with much more than you would expect.
- After an hour or two, grab her hand and say 'lets get out of here'. bring her back to your house if she is comfortable with that (90% of the time), if not go get some food or take her somewhere else.
Ill leave the rest to you, I hope you liked it.
This is my plan after meeting the girl for 2-15 mins during the day and usually 5-10 texts.
Im currently looking for a wingman in London, this is my first post on the forums, PM me if your interested. I dont mind how experienced you are, you will learn fast!