To Didje,aClassic,7000,it`s a pretty nice feeling that you guys actually get what i`m saying.And aClassic`s response was quite powerful (with the cologne example),reinforcing the functionality of this routine.
Sorry for responding so late.
And about the deadbeat dad (i will asume you mean an ignoring one) yes,after the initial stages of pick-up slowly retreating will make her more desperate for your attention as she will recall the feelings of being ignored by her dad (remember memory association from your Psychology class?),meaning every negative feeling you have now will somewhat connect with the memories in your childhood (Approach Anxiety is a GREAT example,if you had an ignoring mother and you remember opening trying to open a convo with her with the risk of being ignored,you`ll link these feelings to the current situation where you are deciding if you should approach the said girl)
This is why there`s mystery`s 3 second rule,you don`t give your brain the chance to recall these sad memories.
Now you have the following patterns:Abusive,Mean Jerk Dad
I will give you a real-world example now.I made friends with this girls best friend and asked her about this girls dad.She told me everything that associates with an abusive alcoholic dad.Now i just got up to my target and after the Opener,few DHV`s and some teasing,i build a little bit rapport then being mean to her.I mean downright insulting.She said that she`s sorry,she`s worthless,etc.I leaned in to kiss her and then BAM.She still chases me today.
This is where you emulate her dad`s properties:
In a relationship:
Have her see you in a social setting that you are doing your perfect act.Do your routines,tell your stories,get people to love you.And when you go home with her just be a down-right jerk to her.Tease her.Humiliate her.Codependent Dad
This dad spoils her girl and lets her push him over and control him in every way.She`s a daddy`s girl.She`ll get whatever she wants.
Man,i gotta tell you.THEY ARE ALWAYS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A NICE GUY.
Now if i think back to my pre-PUA girlfriends they all had spoiling doormat dads.Ignoring Dad
This is where your "just ignore her bro,chicks dig it" comes from.This girls dad never gave a shit about her.She was expected to care for herself.Her attempts at conversation or relating to her Dad was always shot down by her dad not ever turning her head to hear what she`s saying.
Real Life example.
I`m in fifth grade.I see this girl that i like.She looks pretty unkempt but i say heck whatever,i`m not the one obsessed with bathing neither.Then i had this playful ideea to ignore her.
She came to me to introduce herself.I shrugged off and she sat next to me.She started qualifying like a mad cunt.I kept on being the ignoring little faggot i was and the BAM my brother.
She started kinoing me crazy.She told me she wants to be my GF.
Years later i found out from her that her dad never showed her any love.I would have not even opened this thread if i didn`t see this happening with my eyes.I`m not the guy that usually blindly accepts theories that make sense to him.Most of PU-related theories are not even based on logic,only on information about women`s psychological and emotional drives.
So i like to test my ideeas infield before spouting them.Thanks for reading.
Will come back with some more testing and getting on a deeper level on this subject.God knows,might even create a new system based on this if it`s succesful enough.
Thanks for reading!