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kingstonhick
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 Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 11:51 pm Post subject: Cold Approaches |
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Hey,
So I've had some success this last week at school. However, I'm going back home to visit family and such. I want to get good at sarging during the day. I was thinking over the weekend I can attempt to do 100 cold approaches in my city (Or as many as I possibly can). Would this be very beneficial to someone starting out? Or should I wait until I have a better handle on things...
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Dark Jedi
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| Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:43 am Post subject: |
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Dude.
Thats an excellent idea. The more women you expose yourself too, the more women who like you-whether they knew it or not- will know they like.
And well, a hundred?
Should be able to get at least ten numbers, and your confidence will be likely to shoot up, over flow. I have an uncle who did that and well.. he never stopped^^ |
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snubby (aka Zen)
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| Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 7:54 pm Post subject: Re: Cold Approaches |
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| kingstonhick wrote: | | I was thinking over the weekend I can attempt to do 100 cold approaches in my city |
More power to you. Definitely. Go into it with a "just for the hell of it" attitude and have fun. You will learn a lot and polish your skills. Go get 'em, tiger!  |
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fortunehooks
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 12:52 am Post subject: |
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| I think you have a wonderful idea on your hands. As was previously stated, go and get them. |
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kinoescalator
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:19 am Post subject: |
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| Open as many sets as possible, no matter where you are. Im really new to this and after a few weeks of doing that, it feels weird to be somewhere and not open a set. |
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kingstonhick
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 5:06 am Post subject: |
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| AA is getting me down...I knew this wouldn't be easy, but just getting started has felt incredibly difficult. Any of you go through the same shit? |
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Toolfan955
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 5:47 am Post subject: |
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| Yeah, everyone has some AA. Just for these approaches go in with no expectations. right now you're just approaching a lot of girls to get in the habit of doing it. If the conversation leads to a number close, great. But don't go into every set expecting something like that. |
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snubby (aka Zen)
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Toolfan955 wrote: | | Yeah, everyone has some AA. Just for these approaches go in with no expectations. |
Absolutely right. The approach is the object with this exercise, and the more you do it the easier it gets. Even if you just go up and ask for the time. Even if she "doesn't give you the time of day," it's still a success if you just go up, open your mouth, and sound comes out. Preferably intelligible sound. 
This will 1) teach you that it's easier to approach than you thought, giving you a "just do it" attitude, and 2) teach you not to attach to the result, but rather let the process be the purpose.
Good luck. |
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kingstonhick
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| Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 2:27 pm Post subject: |
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| Something like asking the time is very basic and I have no problem doing that lol. I made a rule though, the person has to be a complete stranger and can't be an employee at whatever store or place I'm at. I'm really trying to step outside of my comfort zone! |
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| Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 1:35 am Post subject: |
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| snubby (aka Zen) wrote: | | Toolfan955 wrote: | | Yeah, everyone has some AA. Just for these approaches go in with no expectations. |
Absolutely right. The approach is the object with this exercise, and the more you do it the easier it gets. Even if you just go up and ask for the time. Even if she "doesn't give you the time of day," it's still a success if you just go up, open your mouth, and sound comes out. Preferably intelligible sound.
This will 1) teach you that it's easier to approach than you thought, giving you a "just do it" attitude, and 2) teach you not to attach to the result, but rather let the process be the purpose.
Good luck. |
cool idea! |
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