Torn Stitch wrote:
Must say that I read this prior to my movie date tonight and liked all the advice in here except waiting till the credits roll to kiss her. I understand how she will be wondering and the sexual tension will rise but at the same time she may think you are a pussy if she is giving clear IOI's and you do not make a move throughout the two hour movie. Especially if you are in the very back row or something. Plus the lights come on and everyone leaves, very awkward timing.
I went on a movie date tonight and k-closed after 10-15 minutes into the movie. We made out and fooled around the whole time. It was so perfect because I knew I was easily going to fuck her when we got back to her place. Which I did(check the lay report)
I like the method you explain here but I still vote for making out during the movie. That way when the credits roll, you can dip out and have real sex. Just my 2 cents.
Oh, yeah, totally. Seduction is never a cut and dry linear method, and I agree that making out earlier than I suggested will make things a lot easier sometimes. Every situation calls for a different flavor like different ingredients in a meal for different moods of hunger. At the time I wrote this article, I think it was right after I pulled a movie date where I made out with the girl during the credits and it worked out pretty well in terms of building anticipation and whatnot, so I wrote this based on my own experience. I have to say, though, that I have been on movie dates where I kissed the girl very early on and was even fingering her while the movie was playing.
How you should pace your escalations will vary from situation to situation. Some PUAs will say that the sooner you escalate sexually the better, some PUAs will say that it's usually better to wait and build more tension, but in the end it all boils down to 1. your stylistic choice and 2. the situation itself and how it should be calibrated.
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