hey dude
i wouldn't worry too much bout hur having made other arrangements, especially if ya never made it clear that u had other plans. I don't think she necessarily played u either. hur frame was just very different to yrs.
personally i shy away from those 'enjoyed yr company' text msgs, thats totally ACF....i kinda know where ur coming from tho, i find shit like that a real temptation, but it's a real DLV in my opinion.
wot u should be asking yrself is 'did i put that 3 hours to good use'. i maen it's all well and good to have interesting and stimulating convo.....but did u set a sexual frame???? did the convo head in the direction of sex??? did u explore when she had sex last, does she 'self-help', wot's hur fave position, why? has she ever kissed a gurl?
it takes some skill to broach these topics without coming across a creep, thats why u have to establish a C/F frame from the ouitset. Woz there lotsa kino. did u do the cube?? styles EV routine??
I don't wanna shoot holes in ya MO, but unless ur using tools like this, there's nothing to differentiate ya from any other AFC out there.
next time arrange the meeting in the evening, ideally close to yr place, starbux, food court then try to get hur back to ya crib. If she won't take the bait to return to yr (or hur place), try going somewhere you can drink, have a few drinks then try it on again. u may or may not drill hur (i never do the first meeting), but u should try to get the target back anyway.
freeze hur out for a few days and set up another meeting with the above MO in mind
good luck
DM
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