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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 11:25 am 
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So my point stands.

Anyway OP, what'd you tell her?

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 11:36 am 
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R.C wrote:
So my point stands.

Anyway OP, what'd you tell her?


I complimented her legs and feet over text. That was 4 or 5 hours after she said "No thank you" to my invite to "drinks and Netlix".


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 11:38 am 
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Did she reply?

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Do a little self reflection here OP.

What do you think your mistakes were?

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Do a little self reflection here OP.

What do you think your mistakes were?


I really don't know. I'm really lost. With all the advice I've been getting I don't even have my own opinion anymore! But if I could do it all over again, I would send the compliment text the same night I got her number and she probably would have responded positively and I could have kept flirting and THEN asked her out.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 12:29 pm 
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It's a start, just be easy with the compliments.

They usually do more harm than good, because they're easily interpreted as guys trying to suck up.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2017 3:57 pm 
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Arch Stanton wrote:
When you achieve a high level of fitness and take care of yourself, the direct verbal approach works great. Women arent dumb, they know what you want(sex). Fitness increases first night lays by 30-40% according to research.
You're not making a point on this situation here. The OP didn't lose the girl because he didn't have a high level of fitness. She shown interest so he got her number and walked away. That is the inescapable fact. He lost her because he didn't take advantage of the moment and put in the groundwork. Direct is the way to go, IMO, but you still have to put in the groundwork.

PUA has this concept that we call comfort. Most of the people that I see describe comfort pretty much get it wrong. Most think it's trying to get a woman to trust to see that you're safe. In actuality, it's getting the woman comfortable with doing what you want to do with her. The OP, in this case used comfort with the goal of her getting to know him and she went with that. Instead of going down that same route, he offered the idea of going out. I'm perfectly fine with him wanting to go out but he didn't lead her there from the original intent. The original intent that he built his comfort on.


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Should I try and do anything in the future with her?

When and how exactly?

Please be specific.


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Meet other women, keep adding numbers to your contacts. In a couple months text her out of the blue.

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Arch Stanton wrote:
Meet other women, keep adding numbers to your contacts. In a couple months text her out of the blue.


What should I text her in a couple of months?

Also in the meantime should I go to that cafe?


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Only go to the cafe to game other women, or to bring women there.

Get on Tinder and set up a few dates there. Doesn't matter how hot the girls are.

Two month text:

"Hey, this is X. Up to anything fun?"

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OP there is something fundamentally wrong with you if you plan on still remembering who this girl is in 60+ days and there's something even more wrong if you hope she'll remember you.

AND

There is something even worse if you think doing the exact same thing two months from now will yield a different result.

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PostPosted: Tue May 02, 2017 11:06 am 
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OP there is something fundamentally wrong with you if you plan on still remembering who this girl is in 60+ days and there's something even more wrong if you hope she'll remember you.

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There is something even worse if you think doing the exact same thing two months from now will yield a different result.


Yes, there IS something fundamentally wrong with me. That's why I'm here.

The very fact that I have to ask another male help me "mate" is proof that there's something seriously wrong with me...

It's fucked up how I get stuck in time with a girl. It's pathetic. I wish I could change how I feel.


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pprince wrote:
Yes, there IS something fundamentally wrong with me. That's why I'm here.

Being here doesn't imply something's fundamentally wrong with you just like being in the gym doesn't imply you're morbidly obese.

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The very fact that I have to ask another male help me "mate" is proof that there's something seriously wrong with me...

No, it isn't. Just like asking a personal training to help you get in shape isn't.

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It's fucked up how I get stuck in time with a girl. It's pathetic. I wish I could change how I feel.

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That's because you don't meet enough women. If you had, you wouldn't even remember her name by now. That's the very concept of scarcity vs abundance.

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