I'm 35 met a 28 year old girl that I really liked. I'm not a bar or club goer, so I meet women at work or online or through friends. I'm successful at Fuk closing after 2 dates but can't seem to keep anybody around more than a week or two!
It's be cause you're emotionally-uncentered with women and needy as fuck
. I skimmed over all of your post before typing this response, and it's one of the neediest things I've seen on this forum, and why girls run from you after physical interaction.
I don't care how good you are in bed, or how handsome. If you behave like this, you will never keep attractive women in your life.
last time I was in a serious LTR was YEARS ago! the last dozens of girls I met and slept with didn't even interest me to think about LTR with them until I met this last one. I really wanted to go LTR and even marry her from the beginning, even though she wasn't the hottest girl I had been with
This is a pathetic mindset.
She texted me late that night asking if I was having fun at the party. I said I wished she was there.
Girls don't like this kind of wussy behavior early on.
Later I called her and she offered to pick me up since I didnt want to drive while drunk.
She picked me up we came to my place and had sex again for the 3rd night in a row. She left later that night but never texted me when she got home. (as she normally would have done)
Holy shit are you needy.
I called her the next day, no answer. Called again after 2 hours, answered said was sleeping. I said I would go pick her up for lunch she said she couldn't. I insisted a bit but finally said ok. She said let's see each other at night. I said OK.
Wow. This is soooo needy.
Up to this point every time we had to end our date she would beg me to stay more, seemed she was falling for me.
She was just fucking you, dude. Calm down! It's just sex. Act like you've been there before.
I felt she was getting cold and distance at this point so I panicked. Called my cousin, who had introduced us (she is her friend) and had him call her.
This is insane, creepy behavior.
I called my cousin asking to call her. And I think this made things worse.
No calls just texted me "what's up" with no "babe" or other pet names that she would normally use.
I ignored that text and waited 2 days. After 2 days texted her "how are you babe" no response until the next day from her texting: "sorry been sick, sleeping. what's up?" no pet names or anything, totally cold.
Yeah, no shit. You're creeping her out because you're not emotionally-centered with her.
Is there anything I can do at this point to salvage the situation? should I respond to her text? what should I do??? I know you pros will say it's oneitis, but I had not considered having LTR with anyone in over 10 years. And this one I really wanted LTR with. Please help!
You need a "needy cleanse", but not for her, for YOU. Wait for her to contact you.