She just sent me a long text after 2 days basically giving me the let's just be friends speech. And how great of a guy i am but we are very different people and shit.
Do I respond to that? What and how and when, if the answer is yes.
I saw this coming, bro. You had her, and you chased her from your life by contacting her too much. It has happened to ALL of us. The good news is, you can learn from it.
What would a guy who has three hot, naked women in his bed text?
You: "Cool, I'm good either way. I had fun."
Then you walk the fuck away
and game other women.
I've slept with women after the LJBF speech by doing this. But it was months later.
Remember, "game" is not just about, "Oh my god what can I get right now OMG panic, panic, panic, no sex tonight, panic", but also about planting seeds for the future.
By sending THAT text, you are being the chill, indifferent guy that you weren't with her. And you walk away all cool. And you do not contact her again, at least for six months. Sometimes, when a girl (whom you've slept with, BIG difference from most of the sad stalker shit here) who LJBF's you is horny enough, and lonely enough, she'll hit you up for a bootie call. but the key is to plant this seed of indifference.
Hit the gym. Read novels. Date other women. All you can control is yourself.
Someone once said, in response to having sex with a girl who then gave a the LJBF speech: "So, you had sex with a girl, and now she won't talk to you? Win/win".