Arch Stanton wrote:
Wait a month. If she does not contact you first, send her a cool photo, or something very chill. Don't ask how she is or anything that uses a question mark.
Can you give me a specific example? I'm such an amateur! What would be a cool photo or something chill? And also how to take it from there? What would her possible responses be, and how would I respond and escalate things?
Also, hypothetically, if she says happy new year or something, how should I respond?
Dude, you've had sex with this woman multiple times. Calm down and remember this. Most new posters here are doing what you're doing without even kissing the girl, lol.
I once fucked a girl (dominated her for her first time). She said she hated me for it, and for how fast I seduced her in text a week later, so I didn't contact her again. Two months later I get this (she realized I was just being a dominant male and she had a few dates with weaker men, over time revealing what she preferred):
Her: Merry Christmas Arch!
Me: Merry Christmas to you, too.
Nothing more. Normally I'd invited her over here, but i wanted her to think about her mistake a bit.
A week after that, I send a text inviting her over to my place. No bullshit chit chat. "Hey, just moved into my new place, you're welcome to join me for Netflix". She says "raincheck". I respond "cool". No more texts than that.
A week later she texts me at noon, asking if I like to take photos. I say I do. She sends me a partial nude in a forest. I tell her I do portraits. She asks what I'm doing says she's "available to hang out this afternoon". I tell her I'm working until 8pm. She says "that's too bad, I have other plans for the night". I say "cool". Then she texts me at 8:10 pm, saying "my plans changed, I'm free tonight".
I laugh, invite her over, and make a move five minutes in. The tv does not get turned on. She has been my girlfriend for the last year. She's gorgeous, 21, and lets me fuck other girls with her.
My point is, you have to outwait and outwit women. Minimal texting at the beginning allows for mystery and to tease a girl. Our interaction was foreplay. This girl blew me off, and I made her earn her way back by fucking with her a bit.