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PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2017 2:45 am 
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Picked up a girl at backpacker bar next to our hostel (she's staying here too) last night.

She's leaving tonight and she's with her best friend who is staying one extra night.

Spent the night making out and dancing, was very sexual, got to third base on the dancefloor :D Around 2am I asked her if she wanted to leave with me but she wasn't gonna leave her friend. When the place closed she was tired and we both went back to our own rooms.

This morning I messaged, bit of back and forth trying to get her to meet up, she was responding but ended up heading out with her BFF, which now makes sense since they are only meeting in Sydney for yesterday and today.

At this point I don't know what to message and I'm concerned that if I invite out again it looks too needy. I've got something on this afternoon which I mentioned to her, how do I go about trying to see her again before she goes (and she doesn't have a fixed time to catch train but assume it's tonight)?

My ideas:

"Hey give me your friends phone number, she's staying another night right? We can grab a beer."

"Hey hope you enjoy your day with your friend, if you have time before you head back, let's hang out again"

"Hope you had a great time with your friend today, sneak my way tonight, and we can have some more fun too :)"


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2017 3:54 am 
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Nassander wrote:
Picked up a girl at backpacker bar next to our hostel (she's staying here too) last night.


Okay.


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My ideas:

"Hey give me your friends phone number, she's staying another night right? We can grab a beer."

"Hey hope you enjoy your day with your friend, if you have time before you head back, let's hang out again"

"Hope you had a great time with your friend today, sneak my way tonight, and we can have some more fun too :)"



You: Let's grab a beer tonight, 9.

You don't care if she enjoyed her day with her friend. Your last line is the honest, congruent line (IE, 'sneak my way').

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2017 8:29 am 
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So looking back through my thread I've butchered it and I'm gonna really work on this area.

I asked
do you want to grab a beer tonight

and she replied
I took the ferry to blah
I will go back tonight

I said
Cool. msg me if you want to have some fun before you go, otherwise have fun at blah

And she replied
smile Ok.

What do you do now?


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2017 10:48 am 
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All you can do is wait for her response.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2017 3:07 am 
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Yeah, actually my friend said exactly the same thing.

I am going to get more comfortable with giving people more space when messaging, whilst also being direct and not starting a random chat thread.

I actually did end up leaving it and not replying again, went out dancing and she didn't respond, as expected.

Reviewing the whole interaction, I spent too long in the club dancing, I need to identify when the energy is at it's peak and move locations then. From her messages first thing in the morning she was brushing me off a bit so the interested died out.

Thanks for the advice, was a great experience none the less!!!


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Nassander wrote:
Reviewing the whole interaction, I spent too long in the club dancing, I need to identify when the energy is at it's peak and move locations then. From her messages first thing in the morning she was brushing me off a bit so the interested died out.


Pretty much.

Night game needs to happen on that same night. Unless you have sex with her then and there, a day 2 is very rare.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2017 8:59 am 
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Nassander wrote:
I need to identify when the energy is at it's peak and move locations then.



Boom.

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From her messages first thing in the morning she was brushing me off a bit so the interested died out.



Act like you have a dick, or they'll find someone who does.

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