So the good thing is that she texted you after the first date and was interrested to meet up again.
However you shouldve plan a definite date, time and place for your next venture. Instead you said to have her get back with you.
Like you said you dont want to appear needy so wait till she gets back with you. Dating is like tenis once you hit the ball over the net, you gotta wait till it comes back. Meaning once you have messaged her, wait till she gets back with you. If you keep sending her messages daily , youre not giving her the chance to miss you or wonder about you.
thanks for the advice, you're right I guess I sometimes just keep thinking 'play it cool' and that means I don't get those things done straight away, but at least there's interest.
I last messaged on sunday, where all I said really was to check her shifts and let me know when she's free, which is what I did in setting up the first date.
i'm thinking of sending the following text on probably Wednesday, if I don't get a response by then
'daisy! hope you're not trapped in that sunbed, your (peach emoji) took enough punishment last week! let me know when you get out, I've had a good idea whilst daydreaming at work'
for context, she burnt her ass on a sunbed, and we use the peach emoji to refer to her ass.
I based this on a 'it's not your fault technique' I read about. and I've double texted before we met and it still happened so I don't really worry too much about doing it again, more the timing this time. I tried to leave it a bit mysterious at the end, can this be tweaked? should I be more specific?