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PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2017 9:53 pm 
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This is fucking killing me guys. I know I'm being a needy bitch but after that night of repeatedly calling and texting her that led to her blocking me everywhere I've been feeling really really bad.

I just feel the need to somehow talk to her and feel embarrassed.

I'm not a club or bar goer and that's why I become so fixated on women I meet. This one however the fuck up I did by far is the worse in my life.

Would you advise that I set up a meet through my cousin and try something then? Or just show up when she meets my cousin in the future? I don't want to look and act any more stalkerish than I already have, though.

Is there the slightest chance with her any time in the future?

Please give me advice.(please don't tell me simply to fuck other girls because I can't!)

I know I have ignored some valuable advice before and that's why I'm in this situation now. But I'm willing to improve.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2017 10:45 pm 
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Date other women until you find one hotter, younger, and better in bed. And learn to control your emotions. Tape a sticky note to your phone that says, "Is this an emotional text?".

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2017 10:56 pm 
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Arch Stanton wrote:
Date other women until you find one hotter, younger, and better in bed. And learn to control your emotions. Tape a sticky note to your phone that says, "Is this an emotional text?".


That'sthe thing Arch. I can't! That's also why I got super excited and emotional over this one. I have NEVER picked up a woman one the street or in a bar or club in my life! I only meet them through friends and rarely at work, hence the scarcity mindset and all my other issues.

I'm lost. On one hand I really really want this girl, on the other hand I wish I could be like normal guys that go out and have fun and meet new girls. It's really hurting me.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2017 12:14 am 
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How terrible of an idea do you think it is to show up the next time she's meeting my cousin, or something like that?


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2017 12:25 am 
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I wouldn't do it.

Looks too stalkerish. You have very low value right now in her eyes. She dumped you, dude. If you do decide to "run into her", have another woman at your side

This entire problem is remedied by dating and fucking other women. If she sees you with one, she might come back. Or, you'll find someone younger and hotter. The only way out of the pain is to foster an abundance mentality.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2017 5:11 am 
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Arch Stanton wrote:

This entire problem is remedied by dating and fucking other women. If she sees you with one, she might come back. Or, you'll find someone younger and hotter. The only way out of the pain is to foster an abundance mentality.


Yeah but how when I never go anywhere other than work? How do I date and fuck new women?


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2017 9:05 am 
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pprince wrote:
Yeah but how when I never go anywhere other than work? How do I date and fuck new women?

Do you want him to hold your hand and walkie you to a girl. So even if you only go to work you are saying that zero women come across your radar on any given day. Come on man you're better than that.


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pprince wrote:
This is fucking killing me guys. I know I'm being a needy bitch but after that night of repeatedly calling and texting her that led to her blocking me everywhere I've been feeling really really bad.

What the fuck is wrong with you? I get you're feeling like shit. You can't control that. But you can control the extent in which you let those emotions dictate your actions. That being said, what the fuck is up with this pity party?

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I just feel the need to somehow talk to her and feel embarrassed.

And a meth addict feels he needs just one more hookup. Ever heard of self-destructive attitude?

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I'm not a club or bar goer and that's why I become so fixated one women I meet. This one however the fuck up I did by far is the worse in my life.

So let me get this straight. You never go out and when some woman magically drops from the sky she suddenly becomes the prominent female presence in your life. I wonder why that is. Do you see a problem?
And why are you talking of bars and clubs as if they were the only places to meet women? What about the workplace? social circle? the fucking grocery store? tinder? cold fucking approach?




pprince wrote:
Would you advise that I set up a meet through my cousin and try something then? Or just show up when she meets my cousin in the future? I don't want to look and act any more stalkerish than I already have, though.

That's not stalkerish, that's straight up obsessive and creepy as fuck.


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Is there the slightest chance with her any time in the future?

Yeah, what woman doesn't dream about a man that made her the center of his galaxy on month into dating her. What an absolute catch. Clearly he must have so much going for him. Definitely no red ass gigantic flags there.


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Please give me advice.(please don't tell me simply to fuck other girls because I can't!)

I know I have ignored some valuable advice before and that's why I'm in this situation now. But I'm willing to improve.


Ofcourse you can't with this piss poor attitude. You have some serious special snowflake syndrome going on. Who the fuck says "I never go out but guysssss please help me". That's like the fat guy saying "Yeah I wanna lose weight but I don't change my compulsive eating habits".

It honestly pissed me the fuck off when I see your approach to this problem. It's not "help me go out because I never do". It's "help me get results despite not wanting to put any effort in it".

Jesus fucking Christ this forum is becoming a victim harbor.

Is this really the man you want to be, OP?

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I would suggest change of place and pace. the best thing you could do for yourself right now is spend time for you. Try a one week vacation to some place you wanted to go or a road trip somewhere, it will help, or some-kinda of spiritual/meditation retreat, that would be wonderful too.

Change of setting even temporary and concentrating on yourself will be much more beneficial in long run then sleeping around. When you are in this state and you fuck around you are pushing the core issue further deeper into your subconscious mind and spending your valuable energy on random women that probably won't be around to give that energy back to you. Plus you are trying to fill the emotional void with physical experiences (sex), emotional void can't be filled with physical gratification in long run.

Hope this helps :)


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2017 2:02 am 
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RC,

I appreciate your detailed insight on this. And believe me I know I have issues.

So tonight after work I went to the mall for the first time ever (for a purpose other than shopping)

I saw a lot of girls. Some looked at me others didn't. I was so fucking awkward and uncofident that I looked away from the few that looked at me.

I'm so uncofident around woman that are total strangers.

The only "approach" I made was going to an employee at a phone store and asking her where I could get my phone screen fixed.

Her: bla blah
Me: Are you French?
Her: What?
Me: Are you French? You sound like you're French.
Her: no, I'm from spain. Anyway you go that way there's a store bla blah...
Me: Spain! Can you give me the directions in Spanish?
Her: no thank you.
Me: ok. Thank you.

And she wasn't even hot! Maybe a 6 or below!

Anyway RC and others I'm really willing to help myself. I'm tired of being the shy unconfident guy that I am.

I'm 6'1" 190 lbs kind of fit and average looking.

Please tell me how I could have handled tonight.

Any advice is highly appreciated.


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