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PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 9:21 pm 
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I've been through the exact same thing, man. But remember, she dumped you.

So keep fucking hotter and younger women, and one day you'll find a woman that makes you oblivious to the ex. Around then she'll probably hit you up. And you can decide what to do. Been here several times.

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 22, 2017 6:08 am 
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Arch Stanton wrote:
I've been through the exact same thing, man. But remember, she dumped you.

So keep fucking hotter and younger women, and one day you'll find a woman that makes you oblivious to the ex. Around then she'll probably hit you up. And you can decide what to do. Been here several times.


Yeah Arch, but do you remember the time she ljbf'd me? Remember that you were advising against contacting her? And how I was able to get her back?

By talking to my cousin about the break up I suspect she's expecting me to contact her. Could be wishful thinking though especially because she told my cousin that "she's not ready for a relationship" shit.

I really don't know what to do. I'm depressed. This new girl I fucked last night is texting me and I'm ignoring her cause I don't give a shit about her. Can't stop thinking about my dumper!

Also if this means anything: when she met my cousin she asked to meet him close to my place. Literally 100 feet away. On one hand I think she was hoping that I would show up. On the other hand she told him that she wasn't ready for a relationship. Again maybe she was disappointed that I didn't show up and wanted to save face and said that to my cousin.

What do you make of all of this?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 22, 2017 10:21 am 
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Clearly she doesn't want a relationship, and pushed you away for being clingy.

I still say you wait her out a few more days. If she contacts you, arrange a meet and be 100% fun.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2017 7:13 am 
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So I called her tonight. No answer. Texted her. She said she was done with me. Got her on the phone. Begged to see her. She hung up on me several times. I called again and again and again. Texted and texted and texted her! I don't know how and why I acted that way!

Anyway I realized that she blocked me on FB, IG, WA ... you name it!

I feel suicidal, not for what she did but for what I did. I'm so fucking embarassed. No one in my life had ever blocked me on anything! And yet I went full crazy and retard on this chick and...


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So I called her tonight. No answer. Texted her. She said she was done with me. Got her on the phone. Begged to see her. She hung up on me several times. I called again and again and again. Texted and texted and texted her! I don't know how and why I acted that way!

Anyway I realized that she blocked me on FB, IG, WA ... you name it!

I feel suicidal, not for what she did but for what I did. I'm so fucking embarassed. No one in my life had ever blocked me on anything! And yet I went full crazy and retard on this chick and...
At least you learned something.


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So I called her tonight. No answer. Texted her. She said she was done with me. Got her on the phone. Begged to see her. She hung up on me several times. I called again and again and again. Texted and texted and texted her! I don't know how and why I acted that way!

Anyway I realized that she blocked me on FB, IG, WA ... you name it!

I feel suicidal, not for what she did but for what I did. I'm so fucking embarassed. No one in my life had ever blocked me on anything! And yet I went full crazy and retard on this chick and...


That's what happens when you continuously ignore sensible advice OP.

Don't worry, you'll get over it in a week or two.
There's a lot to learn from this experience. Take it as an opportunity to grow.

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pprince wrote:
So I called her tonight. No answer. Texted her. She said she was done with me. Got her on the phone. Begged to see her. She hung up on me several times. I called again and again and again. Texted and texted and texted her! I don't know how and why I acted that way!

Anyway I realized that she blocked me on FB, IG, WA ... you name it!

I feel suicidal, not for what she did but for what I did. I'm so fucking embarassed. No one in my life had ever blocked me on anything! And yet I went full crazy and retard on this chick and...



I do feel terrible for you. In time, this will heal. Let this be a big learning experience. Also, you may need a small dose of xanax....sounds like some panic, too. Pretty common.

Take everything you've learned in this thread, and with this girl, and apply it to the next girl you like so you don't lose her. It does get better, but you have to realize you need to work on controlling your emotions.

Don't contact her again. Bang younger, hotter girls. I think the incident where you tried to stop her from leaving your place and called her a skank was the end. Sometimes, you can't go back. And it sounds like she may have another guy.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2017 10:40 am 
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Arch Stanton wrote:

You're acting like a needy woman. You will NEVER get an attractive women with options into a relationship by starting out as if/or desiring a relationship unless you have exceptional control of your emotions, of which you have zero capacity. Women like this nuke men, mercilessly who behave this way. My gf and her roommate are horrible to them. No mercy. None. It's evil in a way.

Wait a few more days for her to contact you. And I agree with the others, her behavior is that of a woman with another man. This is very common for attractive women between committed relationships. They have a few dudes on "cycle" until one of them turns dominant, or she finds a new dominant man.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2017 6:15 pm 
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Surprisingly I feel better this morning than the past 2 weeks!

At least I'm not waiting and hoping for her to contact me!

Still terribly embarrassed though. My cousin and all our mutual friends are probably going to hear about this and I'll be even more embarrassed. Terrible feeling inside. I don't want to exist! Again not for her. At this point I don't give a shit about her. But what I did for the first time in my life was horrible.


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pprince wrote:
Surprisingly I feel better this morning than the past 2 weeks!

At least I'm not waiting and hoping for her to contact me!

Still terribly embarrassed though. My cousin and all our mutual friends are probably going to hear about this and I'll be even more embarrassed. Terrible feeling inside. I don't want to exist! Again not for her. At this point I don't give a shit about her. But what I did for the first time in my life was horrible.
This is probably the real problem and not really your feelings for the girl. Not losing her in general, but losing her and everyone else be filled in on the details of why. Especially for a guy that seems to take pride in having hot girls and being extremely picky but can't have the one girl that he wants. Come on back down to Earth. We all come across girls that want us and the ones that don't want us. Own what happened and take what you learned back to your cousin and mutual friends. Once that they see that you learned from it, they'll respect you more for how you handle the aftermath.


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pprince wrote:
So I called her tonight. No answer. Texted her. She said she was done with me. Got her on the phone. Begged to see her. She hung up on me several times. I called again and again and again. Texted and texted and texted her! I don't know how and why I acted that way!

Anyway I realized that she blocked me on FB, IG, WA ... you name it!

I feel suicidal, not for what she did but for what I did. I'm so fucking embarassed. No one in my life had ever blocked me on anything! And yet I went full crazy and retard on this chick and...


I was going to poke fun a little here out of pity. But then I remembered how many more are out there just like you. Men that cannot be solid, and exist without somebody with tits telling them how to live.

Just reverse your behavior for a sec Bro. How would you feel if a girl called constantly on repeat until you answered, or texted so frequently you couldn't completely take a shit without your phone buzzing like an irritated oversize wasp?

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Alright everybody this has nothing to do with her, but an old old friend of mine who's really good with women suggested something and I'm going to ask you guys about it. Please let me know about your experiences and thoughts.

Does owning a luxury car help with the game significantly? This friend of mine picks up women outside of clubs in his porsche and sometimes Lamborghini and takes them straight to his place most of the time. He doesn't even bother getting in the club. Now I understand that he's a natural with women bit he himself has been telling me to biy a car that the average chump doesn't drive and good things will happen. Isn't owning an expensive car some sort of high end peacocking that could work wonders?

What do you guys think?


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This should be obvious but if he's getting women based on his car alone, he's getting gold diggers.

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pprince wrote:
Alright everybody this has nothing to do with her, but an old old friend of mine who's really good with women suggested something and I'm going to ask you guys about it. Please let me know about your experiences and thoughts.

Does owning a luxury car help with the game significantly? This friend of mine picks up women outside of clubs in his porsche and sometimes Lamborghini and takes them straight to his place most of the time. He doesn't even bother getting in the club. Now I understand that he's a natural with women bit he himself has been telling me to biy a car that the average chump doesn't drive and good things will happen. Isn't owning an expensive car some sort of high end peacocking that could work wonders?

What do you guys think?



I think he's picking up skanks.

Being a chill, emotionally-centered and fun guy will get you women, and keep them.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2017 9:53 pm 
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This is fucking killing me guys. I know I'm being a needy bitch but after that night of repeatedly calling and texting her that led to her blocking me everywhere I've been feeling really really bad.

I just feel the need to somehow talk to her and feel embarrassed.

I'm not a club or bar goer and that's why I become so fixated on women I meet. This one however the fuck up I did by far is the worse in my life.

Would you advise that I set up a meet through my cousin and try something then? Or just show up when she meets my cousin in the future? I don't want to look and act any more stalkerish than I already have, though.

Is there the slightest chance with her any time in the future?

Please give me advice.(please don't tell me simply to fuck other girls because I can't!)

I know I have ignored some valuable advice before and that's why I'm in this situation now. But I'm willing to improve.


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