I have a feeling that she was fishing for information from my cousin. And she misses me somehow but doesnt want to contact me because she fears rejection after what she did and now expects me to contact her. I think the NC is starting to work.
Any thoughts? What do you guys think I should do?
I think it's always a good sign when an ex talks about you to your friends. I don't talk about, or even think about FOR ONE SECOND any of my ex's that had zero impact on my life. I don't even remember many of their names.
The ones I do think about, and occasionally talk about are the ones that "got me".
Just keep doing what you are doing. When you make a woman cum a lot, and then pull away from her like you are to erase neediness, she'll come back.
But if she does come back, shut the fuck up about love, relationships, and feelings. And don't fucking drink, you embarrass yourself with sentimentality.
If she is in a bad mood, let her have space, don't always ask "what's wrong". Focus on nothing but having fun and orgasms. Eventually, if you do this long enough a woman will become obsessed with you, and will want a relationship.
And after you fuck a newer(ish) girl, don't wake up with her, then take the day off work and spend all day with her. This is putting her on a pedestal. Kick her the fuck out of your place, and make up work to do even if you don't have any. Lounging about all afternoon is not what dominant males do.
It's amazing how many times I have seen guys do this, and then the girl slowly stops returning their texts.