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I've run into a sticking point recently. I'm not stressing it. But it's something that I should EASILY be able to push through...WTF.
A girl from class. The number was a dead end. Forgot about her. Went through my numbers. Shot her a text. She's down to meet up. I suggest we grab a bite to eat. Says she leaves class at 10pm. Long story short, she grabs a bus, comes directly to my house at 11 PM.
We chat for a while. I bring her to my room. Tell her to chill, that I'm going to take a shower. The idea being to get her relaxed and comfortable at my spot. She insists on bouncing to grab some cigarettes. Says some shit like, oh I didn't know this was a booty call. I'm not down for this.
She tells me she has a boyfriend. I tell her it's cool. I'm seeing someone too. I'm rubbing her legs. Sucking on her titties. Hard LMR. Say's she has a BF. Should be leaving.
I'm not trying to slowly undress her. Not trying to spend 3 hours on the shit. So I have her get an Uber and head home.
Again tonight. I pull a girl outside the bar. Girl says she has a boyfriend. She's down and walks a few min to my place. We get to the bedroom...I go to help her take her coat off. No. She's cold. I go to lay her back on the bed. She says she has a boyfriend. I'm figuring I should spend more time chilling and talking with the girl. A few min later she says she needs to leave.
I tell her to "come here" and put my hand out. She grabs my hand, as if she's about to jump on top of me and fuck me. Suddenly says "I have a boyfriend. You're seeing someone too. I need to go."
The fact a girl goes to your place at 11PM or 1:30AM, it's a given that shes DTF. Should be a given. So I don't know what the fuck is happening with the shit.
In the first case, you definitely did not build enough comfort.
In the second case, the girl made a snap decision, which she quickly realised was a bad one, so she ran out.
Sometimes girls will make a snap decision on the spur of the moment because of an elevated mood AT THAT TIME. When their mood goes back to normal their decision making does as well.