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I don't have time for that, because a hotter one is on the end of my dick.
I simply don't bother with such a response.
But you respond, so you do have time. This is what I mean. You care so much about what people think that you'll say one thing and contradict yourself a moment later. How can you say in one breath that you don't have time for saying that you don't have time for games because a hotter girl is on your dick when you have the same time to respond that you're busy with work. You overcompensate and it's all too obvious.
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Sounds emotional. Walking away angry is beta behavior.
Who said anything about walking away angry? I said walk away. And again, this is classic Arch. "Cologne is feminine." "Sounds emotional". Beta behavior is being afraid to do what you want to do or say what you want to say.
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Why would I be hurt by a woman I've never slept with? Makes no sense. Women don't piss me off. This is all fun and pleasure. If a guy is getting pissed at new girls who don't 100% comply, he's not getting laid often.
I don't know why you'd be hurt. The point you're missing is that she's asking. If she's asking, you don't have to sugarcoat it. You're major problem is that you've agreed with me about letting the power shift back to the guy but you don't have the balls to say what you think when a girl asks why you've become distant to her. If you've become distant because of her behavior, you don't need to pretend it wasn't because of her behavior. And again this is Arch going to an extreme...no one has even mentioned anything about 100% complying. This isn't even a compliance issue.
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Her "behavior"? Why are you acting like you are in a relationship with this woman? The OP only kissed her, and then she blew him off.
Way, way too much investment.
Arch...the girl said she would get back to him and she didn't. That doesn't have anything to do with a relationship, it's just poor behavior. As far as it being too much investment, that's absolutely ridiculous. The only investment is the time it would take to deliver the message. You have enough time to invest in saying:
"I've been having a blast with my career and a few other things lately"
but it's too much investment to say:
"I don't have time to keep playing games."
Even my word count are less of an investment than yours.