Plato
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 Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 2:23 am Post subject: Can someone help me? |
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I've been successful in every area of life but women. At 27 my life has hit a plateau. In short I'm afraid to take big risks, and the biggest risk and fear in my life is women. I am convinced that this one are of my life is the key holding me back from (I am not trying to sound egotistical) greatness.
To me women symbolize every fear and doubt that I have about myself. There are many things that scare me, but without a doubt, approaching an unknown beautiful woman instills the fear of God in me.
To compensate, I've been in one long term relationship after another, in essence using them as a security blanket to hide my own insecurities. All my girlfriends except one, have said that I'm an awesome bf. They say that I have lot of empathy, am emotionally connected enough to get women, and am attentive enough to be good in bed.
As a result, I know I don't lack the natural skills to be good with women- I lack the belief in myself and the courage.
So, here I am. Like an alcoholic hitting rock bottom in front of an AA group, I need your help and support. I refuse to die a worthless fuck, who let mere woman hold me back from reaching my full potential. So I am hoping to find support and mentoring here.
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JSmooth
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You know what you want, and what you don't want to happen to you, which is good! Like AA awareness is the first step, and the second step is wanting to do something about it. I can tell you with the upmost certainty that at some point just about everyone on this forum were afraid to approach women. Its a scary and powerful fear. Once you understand why you are afraid it gets much easier though. If you haven't already check out the Venusian Arts Handbook, you can typically download it online. Mystery explains the "why" as to our feelings about approaching women better than anyone in my opinion.
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