Calling all posters please reply...

edible

HELP!

What do you think works on picking up guys.. I know a few of you are girls out there and I am asking the the right crowd most of you are guys, so what would work on you? You guys are smooth, so I know you know! HELP Smile

I will also give you guys feed back on what has worked on me or friends of mine.. or advice from a womans perspective...

I like the ideas of being funny and witty. I think intelligence and wit along with my smile are my best traits. How should I use them to my advantage?

Yes guys do and could just hit on me, but I am tired of waiting at bars I want to start approaching too..

Romeo7 · Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 9:51 pm Post subject:

Sweeeeet...

A woman asking PUA's for advice, I love it

Now girl, I'm putting my hands on fire here, but I will give you just two things

1. A quote, and
2. A quick advise on how to use your personal traits

1. "The best way of getting someone is to not be afraid of losing it"
Hope you get it

2. Us PUA's for the good part LOVE intelligent classy women who can TEACH us something, so use your Intelligence and teach the men out there something, Make it fun and random.
And as far as your smile, it's simple, just "Smile" genuinely.

Enjoy

edible · Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 9:54 pm Post subject:

Thank romeo I will for sure!

Its like a quote I got at graduation..

"Think of what you would accomplish if you knew you couldn't fail".

jbeld · Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 9:57 pm Post subject:

play hot and cold or push and pull. I still maintain this is the essence of attraction. Every girl that has played push/pull with me especially as an afc caused me to think about them all the time. Tease me back a little as well, giving guys are hard time, but topping it off with a warm smile and confident eye contact is what does it for me. I love the eyes.

hawk · Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 10:27 pm Post subject:

Here's the almighty secret about guys.....you ready? We are easy, we are cavemen. Be sexy, and be completely blunt and you have our attention. Now don't take it the wrong way and over do it, but if you want to approach a guy do it, odds are he'll be flattered. Just be yourself, guys can tell when your being fake, and they either won't like you or won't respect you.

Hungry Like the Wolf · Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 10:37 pm Post subject:

Just walk up to me and start talking, about anything you like. I like situational openers and absolutely LOVE (sorry, didn't mean to shout) solid eye contact. Start talking to me as if I was no one particularly important but maybe interesting. Notice key words I say. Words that can be used to take the conversation in a different direction. Get me talking about me for a while and don't feigh interest. I'll notice it and you have then DLV. (It's creepy!) In fact, always always always be genuine. Take the conversation where you want it to go using the keywords I supply. I'll notice kino if it's too early and that will creep me out too. Makes you look like you're desparate. I am the prize to be won, the trophy, the quarry. I deserve someone worthy of me, not a try hard. I had one woman push her boob into my arm and keep it there. I didn't pay her any attnetion so she commented on it. That was a DLV to me. (Can't she do better than that?) Be funny. I've had this arrogant little thing going where if someone walks in front of you and says "excuse me" I'll instantly say "No" or "No I wont" and be smiling when she (Sorry, He) truns around to see if you meant it. Make your tone of voice playful when you say it. It always gets a laugh and I would have to stop and talk with you. By the way, this stuff probably won't work on AFCs but why would you want one of them when you could have a guy like me?

jbeld · Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 10:40 pm Post subject:

srry hawk my sister rated you down, i'll rate you back up when i get a chance.

Hungry Like the Wolf · Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 10:41 pm Post subject:

PS: This can't be stressed enough. Don't try to be subtle. It will be lost on all but a very few guys.

Lefty Kirkcaldy · Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 4:02 am Post subject:

If you came up to me and used the same PUA things that we use Id probably fall for you... as long as you are a girl.... otherwise its a talk to the fist moment.

mii · Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 6:48 am Post subject:

Well with me a girl just asking my name and introducing herself is fine and then starting a conversation.

Hungry Like the Wolf · Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 4:51 pm Post subject:

If a girl just comes up to me and starts talking, and it's obvious that she wants to explore the possibility of a longer conversation, I am flattered and can't possibly turn her away, even if I'm with friends. Just don't start with "I noticed you looking at me from over there." because if I wasn't actually looking at you, I won't get it and will try to correct you, or at least I would have in my AFC days. That actually happened to a friend of mine, right in front of me, and he didn't get it. At the time, neither did I but there were other reasons for that.

zachary0611 · Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 6:07 pm Post subject:

I love a woman who is funny and tells jokes. Having something intelligent to say always helps, too. lol

Red1975 · Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 6:26 pm Post subject:

I don't mean to sound rude guys but really? Saying quotes and telling jokes?? That does it for you?

I don't think I would ever do those things (maybe that's why i am still single lol!)..being a girl, I guess I don't know better than you lot on this subject, but I would say to Edible to be herself, be sexy (I'm sure you don't even need to try at that), be a little hard to get and be sharp/smart.

Lingering looks are sexy, smiling and having fun with who you're with is sexy, and to open, I imagine as others have said, saying hello is a good start! I don't think a girl has to be too gamey about it unless maybe she isn't fit? And I hate that as much as anyone..but let's face it, if a not so hot girl approached you, I bet she'd have to work a helluva lot harder to get somewhere with you boys than a fittie (aka HB8-10)!

So really, I guess show you're confident and not a wallflower, doesn't mean get on the dancefloor and flash your boobs though! lol

Be a cool kitty baby Very Happy

Red1975 · Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 6:28 pm Post subject:

My bad...I misread the 'quote' posting lol...
I geddit, apologies! x

jinla · Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 7:48 pm Post subject:

I have to agree with the simplicity angle here. Don't over think it. We are not that complicated. If you like us then say so. Then get our phone number. Then call us. Its that simple! The only reason we play games out there is because thats what we know/think women want, not because we want to.

remember men are visual so do the best with what you got. spend some time on your looks. where make-up (i am a big fan of eye make-up myself). wear sexy clothes (tight is good). tease us (visually), we love that.

Good luck, and have fun!

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