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Robot
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 Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 2:43 am Post subject: boyfriend trouble |
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| i have no problem opening etc. but on occasion the girl will tell me she has a boyfriend, fair enough no problem. but after that it completely throws me off and i end up looking like a fool running away with my tail between my legs, i need a way to deal with it an not look like a complete afc. maybe a couple of funny lines? |
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Dr^ZigMan
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| Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 3:05 am Post subject: |
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Someone else one said... "Hey, it's a little quick for you to be claiming me to yourself already! You are way too "
Best advice though is to just change the subject. Often she doesn't have one, or she's willing to cheat on him. Worst case, you got some practice in and maybe she has an HB 10 friend! |
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Stealth7
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| Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 5:22 am Post subject: |
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Hey I was at a webinar last night and it was great! Zip actually spoke about this type of shit test. You could do multiple things:
HER: I have a boyfriend.
ME: Okay, you have a boyfriend and [continue what you were saying].
THat is mirroring technique for direct battle with Shit test.
HER: I have a boyfriend.
ME: Yeah me too! He's tall, muscular, blonde hair with blue eyes!
Zip put it as Go with it-playing with her statement. WHat you do is just go along with her bullshit!
HER: I have a boyfriend!
ME: [continue what you were saying and ignore that statement.]
This is called Ignoring the shit test. This is my method and style of handling the situation. Believe me, you must be very congruent and have extreme confidence as well as a hell of a strong frame. (Frames are in NLP terms of describing how we look at ourselves. ALso it's how we let people in or not.)
WIth my style it's harsh and very direct. I'm bold and don't give a shit about what her response is. Maybe it's possible I throw a shit test back at her which I'll call "Shit" test Ping. It's basically throwing back at the women to throw her off balance.
HER: I have a BF (boyfriend)!
STEALTH: Yeah and you're full of shit too! [Smile and laugh-key component in pulling this off. Be playful as you can and try not to be serious! If you want her to shit her pants then say it in a straight face but when she pauses or looks at you like ,"Holy shit I can't believe he just did that!" look. Then smile and laugh. She'll get the idea that you weren't trying to be mean.]
HER: [should laugh like they always do when I use this type of style] OMG, I can't believe you said that-you're so mean!
STEALTH: I'm the nicest person on Earth! [Sarcastic tone]
HER: I bet! [Sarcastic-as you can see we're both having fun which increases attraction.]
STEALTH: Fine don't believe me-you're loss! [laugh and walk away]
My style is more like I don't give a fuck mind set where I blow her out of the set instead of her blowing me out. I act like I'll not give her a chance of day.
You can use Zip's method which I'll advise you to. Mine may sound alittle to harsh and cruel but I was using it all day today which I got the girl to laugh everything I said.
However, just a fair warning-you can joke for so long until it's time to get serous and get to know each other by building Rapport.
Peace out bro! |
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