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 Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 2:31 pm Post subject: Bounce within 3-4 minutes. |
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Lately I havn't been having a lot of succes, which I think was mostly due to me not balancing learning and practicing that well going a LOT more towards learning, however last few days I've been really working on rapport skills, practicing with more or less anything that had a head to fuck with.
Today I was looking for a certain hairstylist in a very crowded area of the city, and no mather how good google maps is at finding entrances that are 80 centimeters wide, I couldn't find it. So I thought I'd just ask a single good looking lady that was shopping there. I started my routine that I was perfecting, which works more or less on her subconcious. While I was asking where the shop was and talking about the area and stores. I started out with reading her eyes, body language, Voice and speech. And found out she was one of those internal types with not a lot of friends but they were good friends. So the horrible person that I am, I adjust my body language, voice, Breathing, eyes, all that stuff to what type she was. As rapport builds a lot faster between people of the same type. and I was getting hungry, so once I was pretty sure I had enough rapport to bounce her to a subway (sandwiches) 3 meters away, I did. Asked her number Before we bounced, with something like: Hey, better give me your number in case you get lost on your way there! (Yeah this is translated)
After that we talked for a few minutes, then It was time for me to actually find the hairstylist and get my hair done, I closed with a kiss on my cheeck and went into a very well hidden entrance to the hairstylist that was a few meters away. |
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 8:33 pm Post subject: |
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| Sounds good, but what i want to know is how you read her voice, speech and body language. What was it that you looked for? how did you make it work for you? |
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| Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 8:54 pm Post subject: |
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That is LOADS of work  It's something I've been working on more or less every day for a few hours. I've read a lot of books, including: the art of speedreading people, Tricks of the mind, 3 books on speaking which I can't remember the names from, the absolute book of body language, Influence, and some more plus a lot of articles on nlp, I have a 1 hour a week training from a family member of mine who is a psychiatrist.
And the most important part, I've been practicing a lot. First on people I know, and starting this week I've been just Talking to anything trying to read stuff, and attuning myself to it.
As for guessing if I had enough rapport to bounce, that was a big guess But basically you look for IoIs, I normally just look for a slight tilt in the head, playing with hair and I've been trying to get to notice pupils getting bigger, but I find that hard.
I wouldn't recommend doing this Only if your really interested in it. |
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