Im no newbie to body language as ive been studying deceptive body language for a few years now. I've read all the books you listed in the beginning of the forum and have learned a wealth on courtship's body language. So now ive been focusin on each topic and have realized the whole touching hands happens more often than i thought. So here's the scenario, im at work and i goto pay for lunch. I hand the cashier my debit card and when she hands me the keypad, we always touch fingers underneath as we usually hold the pas together, and she shows no signs of resistance or nervousness(she does a hair preen everytime) factors to consider with this one, she's older than me, and we work in the same facility. Should i look at this as a sign to begin gaming?
Sorry man didn't even realize this was a question.
Well that is up to you... In a situation like this I tend to avoid gaming women I've met from work but that doesn't mean I haven't.... If I was you I would actually pay attention to how she behaves with other guys so you can baseline her behavior does she do this with other men or just you? That should give this a lot more clarity.
Another scenario, im handing a girl some papers, making small talk and she laughs at my jokes. I congratulate her on gettin the job and she does a hair preen, smiles and swings to the side then says thank you. I hand her the papers and she gets a feel of my hands with no sign of rejection.
This situation I'd say it's quite obvious she is attracted... just escalate and meet her with touch.
Third scenario, older lady, not a co worker..only speaks spanish always does a hair preen when she see's me and doesnt pass me without saying hi. If i dont notice her, she will get my attention and say hi. One day i think she did it on purpose cuz this one was like a sensual sliding touch of my mind as i handed her a ticket. She immediatly looks me in the eye and says sorry but with a grin. This one i made no hesitation on since she doesnt work with me, so im working on rapport with her.
But my question to the forum, do you guys think i read the first 2 right and should escalate?
The first sounds very positive but nothing confirmed baseline her behaviors... The other 2 yes to me they sound like obvious cases of attraction.
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