Y'all want a lesson? Here it is: don't do anything that you think will make you feel like an asshole later, because it probably will. And anything that an MRA tells you to do will MAKE YOU AN ASSHOLE, even if you don't like yourself while you're doing it.
PUAs need to stop taking advice from MRAs. MRAs are fucking scum.
I'll second this because it's worth seconding.
I used to be all into the Roosh frenzy, but once I started seeing the severity of thevitriol against women (go on his site and read "Patricia's Cell Phone"), I knew this was a path I couldn't follow.
Some MRA's, legitimate ones anyway, are doing good by trying to make changes in the courts, etc. Have you seen really good guys get totally wiped out in divorce court? I have. And it's usually all because of some emotional persuasion the female spouse presents (in the legal community, there's a saying that "the law is whatever a judge had for breakfast.")
I'm totally for those.
As far as the sob-story, lets get our revenge and get out there and treat women like shit because they've had it coming for a while. No go.
Indeed, RSD has gone down this path in a way, as I watched Tyler tell an auditorium of 17 year olds that "I used to be the 'nice guy' who 'played by the rules...'" and how much that fucked him over.
What rules?? Who's telling you to be a pushover to girls. Meet a girl online, foot the $100 check, then get a txt later, "Hey Jeff, I had a nice time, but I just didn't feel the instant click, sorry."
Or dating said girl for four months (Roosh has a video about "Never get Excited about a Girl") where he talked about a friend who went on and on about this amazing girl he met, and how he knew from how this guy was praising her, that it wasn't going to end well.. Those are the girls that will send you the txt six months in: "I've met someone."
On the flipside, I was trying to explain to a girl tonight how guys who date more than 5 girls at a time are usually not doing it because they're womanizers or "trying to get maximum pussy!!"
No, usually, they're nice, decent guys, who need options because so many girls will drop out of the picture.
Guys have to take overt steps and go ***WELL*** out of their way to have options with girls. A guy who dates 5 girls at a time has a chance of establishing an LTR (the reason most guys get into pickup)
Girls already have options. They're the deciders. And to have those options, all they have to do is go about their day.
So this, "I don't give a fuck" definitely does have its place for the average schmo who goes on one date, gets, "Sorry, didn't feel the chemistry", then two weeks later has another date, same result.
"I don't give a fuck" could really help this guy out, because he'll be the one collecting those options, and when one of the 5 drops out, oh well. I knew a guy who could get tons of girls, wanted a girlfriend, and this is what he did for that reason.
But hey, what do I know.