If I find woman I care about, majority of the time I try no PUA material...
And that is hard, but I want her to like me for me, so if she does get to like me for me, I tell her the truth... SOunds like typical AFC shit huh?
Well, in one instance, this lady friend of mine, liked me so, but I never ran game at all, I was just cool ya know, till one day she gave me an IOI, and then she kissed me for no reason... So I kissed her back, and well we were dating... So on our first date, I was very honest with her, and told her what I do on the side... At first she thought I was using the PUA shit as an excuse for not admitting I was gay... I was like WTF??? But she seemed interested as to what I was talking about, She thought it was sexy... Only because she use to be shut down and treated like shit by guys... She was the only HB10 (in my eyes) that I have ever dated and she wasn't always an HB10... She was probably a HB5, she was a lil over weight, had braces, was tacky with her fashion, but in a matter of 3 years when I first met her, we were always cool, and I never treated bad or good, I was just cool with her, and when she wanted to hang out, we did, only because I knew she wasn't on some bullshit with me and she really was a good friend... By the time she changed her whole appearance, I was shocked, but I never said anything, at times she would go out and wing with me and not even know it... By far she is way more attractive than me, and her style is great, she is hot as fuck, and well we had good times... So when I told her what I my alter ego consisted of, she thought it was sexy, and she would challenge me... She would point out some HB's at clubs, lounges, shows, house parties, and I would try to kiss close... She set the rules, and she was amazed... Our actual first date was her giving me a challenge, after that, we hit it off, we was good for a couple of years, but she wanted a family, kids, marriage... And I had just started my record label with my buddies, work was kicking off to a good level, I finall found my job security, and I couldn't promise her anything...
So she left, moved to Florida, and I think is about to get married this April... This was three years ago.... I respect her a lot, she is a wonderful woman, but I don't love her like she loves me, but she is/was probably the best woman for me... You win some you lose some, but you keep moving on...
So in short, just be honest with her... You still have yer normal self, and yer true human feelings...
If she feels betrayed, then run no game, and tell her that you and her are ligit... _________________ This game is Custom made for me!
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