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 Post subject: How to become Alpha?
PostPosted: Sun Sep 25, 2016 11:04 pm 
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Hi!
I'm having trouble being an alpha and I would like a good book or a good guideline on how to become alpha. I'm starting in this world and without the proper confidence and mindset I won't be able to progress.
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 Post subject: Re: How to become Alpha?
PostPosted: Mon Sep 26, 2016 2:01 am 
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Give us some more detail. In what ways do you think you're not "alpha?"

My immediate recommendation is Way of the Superior Man by David Deida but it'd help for you to be more specific on where you're coming from.

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 Post subject: Re: How to become Alpha?
PostPosted: Mon Sep 26, 2016 6:22 am 
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Chief wrote:
Give us some more detail. In what ways do you think you're not "alpha?"

My immediate recommendation is Way of the Superior Man by David Deida but it'd help for you to be more specific on where you're coming from.

Thanks for the book man.
Ways in which I think i'm not alpha?
- I'm quite small (5'5,65kg)
-I have a fluctuating confidence in myself.
-I don't have as much self confidence as I desire.
- I am not charming.
- I am a bad leader.
I'd say the points in bold are the most important ones.


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 Post subject: Re: How to become Alpha?
PostPosted: Mon Sep 26, 2016 8:25 am 
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I got much help from RSDMax "the natural". It's expensive and much overprized but is a good product.


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 Post subject: Re: How to become Alpha?
PostPosted: Thu Sep 29, 2016 9:29 pm 
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No book is going to make you an alpha. That is something you have to do on your own with your own life experiences.

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 Post subject: Re: How to become Alpha?
PostPosted: Fri Sep 30, 2016 12:03 pm 
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You won't become Alpha until you learn to get uncomfortable and push yourself beyond your comfort zones.

Start with the Newbie challenge here on the forums. And try this quote for size:

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“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”

― Og Mandino

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 Post subject: Re: How to become Alpha?
PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2016 12:18 am 
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You will become more Alpha if you start doing this 1 thing:

Get out of your comfort zone on a regular basis.

Do things you feel uncomfortable about doing. Talk to women you don't know (99% of guys don't do this)

Do things that most guys don't do. Do things that would make most guys embarrassed.

It doesn't always have to mean you approach and talk to girls. You can dive into the ocean during winter.

Go do something crazy, wild. Live life and explore. Do stupid shit.

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 Post subject: Re: How to become Alpha?
PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2016 12:00 pm 
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If you lie to yourself enough, you'll believe your own lie. Just keep telling yourself that you're alpha, a leader and a fuckin' boss - 50% of it is belief. That's the first step.

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