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 Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 3:32 am Post subject: Being confident about being unconfident... |
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I feel as if i've fallen backwards in the field of confidence. My soul has stepped down a notch, and my actions show it. It leads me to ask myself questions such as: What the hell did I just say? or Why did I just do that?
I don't have a solution...Well maybe I do.
Why do people act the way they do? Half of it is biology, aka genes and hormones. The other half: What you have learned, how you were raised. These are the things that make up personality. So how do you keep confidence as a part of your personality?
Nothing in life is permanent, let's first get that out there. You can be confident one day and pubes the next.
But for better success in the confidence field, it's important to follow your biology. Do what your body tells you to do. The moment you begin to feel uncomfortable in a situation, fix it! Don't just stand there. Step out of your comfort zone and fix that feeling. If you overstay in your comfort zone for too long you will not gain confidence.
Consider: An asshole who doesnt act like an ass hole is fronting. And when it comes time to make a decision he's lost, cuz he's really just an asshole. Fuck, I don't know where this is going. This topic is so topical. |
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