Vandal
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 Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 8:13 pm Post subject: beginner approach |
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Ok guys, I discovered this community about a week ago and have started approaching girls. Its been going quite well. This one girl, however, I had actually talked to for a few seconds before and I am really into her, making me really nervous this time around. If anyone can give me any tips/correct me I would greatly appreciate it.
I was the first in class, standing playing with my phone. I had not yet decided where to sit – how could I, she hadn’t arrived. Luckily, she was the first one in the door. We made eye contact and she went to sit on the other side. I calmly approached and asked how she had done on her revised midterm. She said she had lost some marks, and I negged her that she must have been the only one as everyone else had gained a significant amount. She smiled.
I changed to an opinion opener, telling her that I had a friend (a girl) who had been my friend since grade 1 and I really wanted to get her something special. She seemed to become more relaxed upon learning I had such a close friend of the opposite sex. We talked for another 5 minutes or so about school, work, hobbies. She was enjoying it, and asking me quite a bit of questions. Walking out after class, I knew I had to close because I would not be able to live with myself if I didn’t. I told her I had to go meet some friends but she should write down her MSN, so we can keep in touch. She happily consented, and jotted down her name and email.
To anyone who got this far, I’d like to say it may not have been much, but for me personally, it was a tremendous step forward. I only regret not engaging in any kino apart from arm touching. Does anyone have any recommendations.
Thanks
P.S. I actually feel like I’ve found something good with this community. Its helping me become a better person. |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 9:16 pm Post subject: Hey |
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The community is enriching my life as well making me more confident overall not just with women. I'm glad to hear other feel the same way. Since you have her MSN, I would wait a bit to contact her on it, don't give to much interest. Move to get her phone number soon next if on MSN. If in person go back to comfort building and KINO!
Sounds like you're doing well.
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Toolfan955
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| Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 11:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Nice sarge. And yes the community can really enrich your life. Its leads you to be more comfortable in social situations. That comfort can help you in many aspects of your life, not only girls. |
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