bhodisatva
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 Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 7:32 pm Post subject: Becoming yourself... |
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Hey everyone,
Well, my mind has been opened!
I have recently come out of a 7 year relationship with a serious 9 who didn't even have to wear make-up to boost her score and yes you guessed it, I wussed out towards the last few years of the relationship and lost her to what I would call a total prick 
Whilst looking to get back into dating I stumbled across De'Angelo's material and it was like a lightening bolt! A massive rubiks cube being completed infront of my eyes. It just totally made logical sense to me...like I'd always known it but couldn't put it into words. Men have a fantastic capacity to work out problems in a logical and methodical manner, women on the other hand really do not have this capacity which is why they are so hard to understand, its just different wiring in the brain.
I'm pretty new to all this and I know I have a lot to learn but I can approach a woman quite easily already and get her number/ phone and arrange a date a few days after. The thing I'm sticking on is the manipulation factor. I get to the point of K.C and a wave of guilt hits me that I have duped her into it (damn my morals) I'm hoping to learn how to get past this so I can do it and rationalise it in my brain so I dont feel guilty looking in the mirror. My rationalisation at the moment is that women dupe men all the time with make-up, push up bras etc. They excensuate themselves to catch the man. They use physicality, we use our brains, but this is not working at the moment.
Anyway, keep keeping on...
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