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topshelf
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 Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 3:23 am Post subject: Becoming attached after a makeout session..... |
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| Dunno if this happens to everyone else, but i feel like i get attached to the girl as soon as i shove my tongue in her mouth. I try to play it cool afterwards but I either show way too much interest and come off desperate, or show no interest (because I don't want to come off desperate) and I come off as a random hookup thats got no substance..... cant find the damn median, my mind get stuck on these women, its drives me out of my mind. |
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magicJ2007
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Dude , I feel you on this one. We cant help it. Cuz simply because we are humans. And all human have emotions , and attachment to one another.
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Mech
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 4:01 am Post subject: |
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| It's called pair bonding. Enjoy it. |
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topshelf
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 4:36 am Post subject: |
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| Mech wrote: | | It's called pair bonding. Enjoy it. |
don't wanna be a pair. I wanna get action and peace out. |
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Methuselah
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 4:43 am Post subject: |
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| There are roughly 6 billion people on this planet, probably more. Roughly half that are females, probably more. 3 billion females, roughly 1/3 of those are ones you'd consider gaming (age appropriate, looks, weight, nationality, whatever). Your left with 1 billion girls who you could possibly meet and interact with your lifetime (not that this is remotely possible). Stop fretting over one girl just because she gave you a kiss, and move on if thats what you want to do. If its not, then don't, not very hard. |
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Mech
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 5:00 am Post subject: |
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| topshelf wrote: | | Mech wrote: | | It's called pair bonding. Enjoy it. |
don't wanna be a pair. I wanna get action and peace out. |
I didn't say married or anything. I actually *like* the feeling you're describing. It means you're making a connection with someone instead of just grabbing their ass. |
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topshelf
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 5:34 am Post subject: |
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| Mech wrote: |
I didn't say married or anything. I actually *like* the feeling you're describing. It means you're making a connection with someone instead of just grabbing their ass. |
I agree with you %100, however I feel that sometimes the feeling is just so overbearing it's irresistible and, while I enjoy it, I go overboard with where the feeling takes me and I can't figure out how to tame it. |
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Methuselah
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| How many women have you been with? Is this a new feeling for you because you are now just getting women or is it a feeling you've had for a long time now? |
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topshelf
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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| i get it everytime i'm with a girl, so it happens quite a bit. |
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Jaxin
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Well the way I see it if you start getting attached don't show it, 'cause when you show it, something goes off in a woman's head that says "this guy is desperate". Learn to give a woman up for more women. To be a pickup artist you have to be willing to let go of a girl I know it's hard we've all been there but you gotta do it period no if ands or buts. |
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