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(...) and dont want to fuck up when (...)
You have already fucked it up if you are thinking like this ^ You are depending too much on the outcome and this will come across... You shouldn't care about the result. Listen, you are going out to have fun, and you bring your date along. If she doesn't want to come, then you find another date who is willing, but you shouldn't be like "would you like to do this or that or probably that one, oh wait that one is closed etc. etc..." She is not your wife, man, just keep it cooler because this needy attitude gets pussies as sore as a desert.